Dear Anita,

I thought about what you said and you’re not entirely wrong but I’m on holidays with my family and I think it’s just my father’s own triggers and traumas maybe? I can see that he’s somehow trying to blend in with me. And it’s just that kind of culture I grew up in we don’t disrespect elders but they can disrespect us. But not intentionally

Now think about this if my father is not able to aware about what’s actually triggering him or actually he thinks he’s right. His intention aren’t wrong and I do think that he have soft spot for me as well. He’s just doesn’t have EQ that we have. And the thing is that if I disrespect him it would just hurt him more. Which I don’t want to do.

About the financial support as an eldest son it’s my responsibility to support my family. And that’s just like a unwritten rule but it’s there and I’m not against it. Because I know I’m able to provide that and I don’t have a problem with that. Although I decided I’ll give specific amount every month like that I don’t have to worry about how much and what not.. Because I also have my own goals to accomplish