Dear SereneWolf,

How are you doing?

I am having another not so good period health-wise, so I am not too cheerful. But holding on, keeping hope that it’s going to get better eventually…

Well romance languages are kind of similar to one another, So not so hard and it’s just fun watching old vintage French and Italian movies on weekends so…

True, I was told that Spanish and Italian are sort of similar. Don’t know about French – everyone says it’s pretty hard….

Yes. I get bored pretty quickly. If there aren’t enough things that interest me

For a guy who watched a lioness give birth… no wonder that cities are boring 😀

Okay so I’ll note this and try to work on that. Thanks! In some situations like when my anger gets triggered I do notice that directly, be mindful about it and then ask questions and calm it down after some slow breaths

You’re welcome! Great you’re already practicing mindfulness when you notice you’re getting angry…

Hmm I think I can trust these affirmations if I reach to this step after being mindful about this specific trigger

Great! So at least intellectually you know you’re free to make your own decisions and no one is forcing you to tie the knot.

Yes that’s what I’m working on.. You think act as a father figure to my cat counts?

Haha… I don’t even think it’s possible with cats – they are great individualists and pretty sneaky 🙂 But you can be a father figure to that boy from the neighborhood, whom you were teaching how to ride a bike.

And It should be without judgements. Like I know I’m in touch with my inner child and I still do lot of things that an adult actually doesn’t do like I turned into a kid when I’m with kids, Different kind of bicycling, Singing and dancing for no reason (Lot of times while cooking, Watching Anime and Cartoons and lot of things like that) And I kind of fear they would judge me for that and not actually understand

I get it… that’s great that you’re in touch with your inner child! When you were a child, did you feel judged by your parents for being spontaneous and a little silly? Did they often tell you to “behave”?

I don’t like being even partially “dependent” on someone or affected by them. It could be because I like to control (It’s lot better than before but still) but not being controlled. Because I prefer some things should be my way.

Can you give me an example? What in your life should be your way and you wouldn’t agree to any kind of compromise?

Thanks a lot!

You’re very welcome, SereneWolf!