Dear Zenith:

“Sometimes  its hard for me to regulate my anger and I yell at her. I know I have to change this habit.  Sometimes I get frustrated with her behavior“- yes, regulate your anger. Easy to say, difficult to do,  I know, but a worthy goal nonetheless, it really is! Your daughter can learn emotion regulation by watching you model it/ practice it successfully.

“She wants.. a to toy or key chain every week. My husband spoils her with all the toys.“- if she gets a toy every time she wants it, she doesn’t get a chance to regulate the emotions that take place when a child does not get what she wants when she wants it..

anita