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Oh, you’re definitely not alone, there are too many inconsiderate neighbors out there!
Oh, so he’s one of those guys. Not trying to judge him or categorize him, but there seem to be more of them each day. I don’t understand the need to make the car louder, it doesn’t affect performance.
Ahh, that’s terrible, about your mother waking up in a panic. You’re right it can happen anywhere. That’s something you’ll always have to wonder about anytime someone else moves in to your apartment complex or when you move. So yeah, don’t move, because while this guy may be a jerk, you could end up with a worse neighbor.
For example, my neighbors in the duplex I live, well they love to park in MY part of the driveway. They stop and chat, blocking my way in and out. They let their children play on my side as well, all over my plants and they would always leave their trash and toys EVERYWHERE. They managed to ruin a few plants. Their children also have the habit of kicking the walls in their rooms. My neighbor also thought it was a good idea to “pimp out” his truck in the driveway we share. Yeah, we each have a side, but usually his materials would end up on the ground, sometimes even take up some of my space. He worked on that truck for about a YEAR!!! And for what, he ended up selling it! Uhhh!! Talk about annoying, and I thought my previous neighbors were bad! The only thing they did was throw gum and trash everywhere, slam doors, and yell. Not even a fraction as bad as my current neighbors. Thankfully I took pictures and spoke with my landlord, and while their children no longer play on my side of the yard, or park in my spot, they still block my path sometimes, so it’s manageable but still angers me from time to time.
“I don’t understand how some people just have complete disregard for others.” I don’t either. They tend to think they own the place just because they pay to live there. Newsflash, we all pay, we all have the same rights.
Definitely do meditation, it will help you feel much better. Meditation, while I don’t do it too often, when I do, I feel so relaxed afterwards. Making me feel very happy throughout the whole day. Try it.