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  • October 18, 2019 at 5:58 am #318519
    Inky
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    Hi Sarah,

    Usually I believe in “all’s fair in love and war”.

    But this guy is a tool. Imagine a future where you reciprocate. You will either be the side piece or the girl who broke up their relationship. What he should do is confess to you without being drunk, gross and alone. THEN break up with his girlfriend. OR quietly let the girlfriend go THEN confess to you soberly, and respectfully.

    And let’s say his relationship doesn’t last. You go out with him. One day he’ll be creeping on some other poor girl behind your back.

    He’s not all that and a bag of chips. This I promise you.

    Best,

    Inky

    • This reply was modified 5 years, 6 months ago by Inky.
    October 18, 2019 at 6:11 am #318523
    Peggy
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    Hello Sarah,

    You have some issues with your self esteem if you are turning down dates because you think that when a guy gets to know the real you, he’ll be disappointed.  He says he’s having relationship issues with his girlfriend.  This guy is part of this relationship and if he doesn’t believe in relationships any more, then he doesn’t believe in himself.

    If you get the chance, it’s quite in order for you to say that you don’t want him flirting with you while he’s still with his girlfriend.  Also, avoid him when he is drunk.  Getting drunk on a frequent basis is a sign that he is not handling his own issues very appropriately.

    There is no reason for you to leave the group unless you are feeling uncomfortable in this situation.  If it really does depress you, then leave the group.  You can leave him your number should he ever want to contact you.

    Best Wishes

    Peggy

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