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December 9, 2024 at 8:03 pm #440053EvFranParticipant
Dear Anita,
Thank you so much for your wise words, I will keep your affirmations in mind.
I have taken my decision and it’s a good feeling. I can come back any time in case things turn worse
It’s comforting to know that I can count on your support.
Thank you.
December 9, 2024 at 8:28 pm #440054anitaParticipantDear EvFran:
You are welcome, EvFran, so very welcome. I remember so well how you stood up for me, coming to my aid back in Feb last year, when few- if any did. Yes, you can count on my support, you deserve nothing less!
anita
December 21, 2024 at 11:56 am #440906anitaParticipantThinking about you, EvFran, hoping you are well!
anita
December 21, 2024 at 4:22 pm #440912EvFranParticipantThanks for your message, Anita. After a long reflection I have taken my decision, so I feel much better. I don’t know what the future will bring but I feel aligned and confident. Things can only get better, for sure 🙂
I hope you’ll have a wonderful Christmas surrounded by people you love.December 21, 2024 at 8:44 pm #440915anitaParticipantGood to read back from you, EvFran, I will reply further Sun morning (it’s Sat eve here).
anita
December 22, 2024 at 11:44 am #440929anitaParticipantDear EVFran
GOod to read that you feel aligned and confident and much better Thank you for your wishes My Christmas will be better simply for knowing you are here. Merry Christmas!!!
anita
December 25, 2024 at 7:20 am #440999anitaParticipantM e R r Y C h R i S t M a S again, E v F r A n 🎄🎅 ✨❄️ 🎁 😊 !
December 28, 2024 at 12:26 am #441066EvFranParticipantDear Anita, just logged in after a few days and saw your nice surprise. Thank you so much! Actually, Christmas was very lonely. After cleaning my uncle’s flat throughly, I got so tired that I went to bed at 7 P.M. But today I feel better again, I shouldn’t think too much, just accept things as they are and get the best out of it. Which normally I do, it was just so difficult without all those loved ones who died during the last 3 years. I just imagined how nice and fun it would e if they were around. But I can’t change things, so will try to focus more on myself next year.
I hope you had a lovely time with friends and/or with family. Take care and have a nice weekend. 😘☀️December 28, 2024 at 8:03 am #441070anitaParticipantDear EvFran:
Good to read from you! I’m sorry to read that your Christmas was lonely and exhausting after all the hard work cleaning your uncle’s flat. It’s completely understandable to feel the weight of missing your loved ones, especially during the holidays. I admire your strength in trying to make the best of things, even when it’s challenging. Focusing on yourself in the coming year is a healthy and positive approach.
My Christmas was relaxing, spent indoors all day because of the non-stop rain. I missed the outdoors and I missed socializing but I didn’t ruminate on wishing it didn’t rain, and that I was around people. Acceptance is.. Relaxing.
Here are 4 quotes by Thich Nhat Hanh for today and for your new year:”The seed of suffering in you may be strong, but don’t wait until you have no more suffering before allowing yourself to be happy” (Happiness and suffering are intertwined, and waiting for a perfect state free of suffering is neither possible nor necessary for the experience of joy), “Letting go gives us freedom, and freedom is the only condition for happiness. If, in our heart, we still cling to anything – anger, anxiety, or possessions – we cannot be free”,
“The best way to take care of the future is to take care of the present moment”, “Waking up this morning, I smile. Twenty-four brand new hours are before me. I vow to live fully in each moment and to look at all beings with eyes of compassion”.
Wishing you a peaceful weekend and a Happy New Year! 😊
anita
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