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  • January 29, 2023 at 8:16 am #414705
    Mina
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    Thanks Anita.

    January 29, 2023 at 8:25 am #414706
    Anonymous
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    You are welcome, Mina. Post again anytime you feel like posting.

    anita

    February 2, 2023 at 4:36 am #414862
    Mina
    Participant

    Anita, I have to admit another problem. When I was working in office a married man strongly flirted with me. As I have no friends or such boyfriend experience I may have erred. I didn’t flirt with him. However later in life I have tried reaching out to him but never got any response. What is the meaning. I hear in my own voice him telling me that I love you and such things so I tried reaching out to him. Why do I hear this voice? How would one know if somebody likes you or not as in a boy? I want to become normal so I’m seeking help. I don’t want to trouble anyone but I hear this voice.

    February 2, 2023 at 9:05 am #414876
    Anonymous
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    Dear Mina:

    I understand how lonely you have been for so long, and I wish it changed and you were no longer lonely!

    “I hear in my own voice him telling me that I love you and such things so I tried reaching out to him. Why do I hear this voice?..  I don’t want to trouble anyone but I hear this voice“-

    – you shared earlier that you were diagnosed with schizophrenia by at least one doctor (“Doctor says schizophrenia another one said depression“, Jan 18). Maybe this voice is part of the illness and you need your medication adjusted?

    “How would one know if somebody likes you or not as in a boy?“- I guess you would know that somebody likes you if he says that he likes you and he behaves like he likes you.

    anita

    February 2, 2023 at 9:36 am #414880
    Mina
    Participant

    Even I feel it is due to loneliness. If I tried talking to my mother she would say go talk to your dad and dad would say don’t bother me. I feel like a servant mentally ….sarcasm, rudeness, humiliation and then this other issue. I never had boys as friends. My parents brought me up like that. Girls who were friends were mean and selfish.

    February 2, 2023 at 9:48 am #414882
    Anonymous
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    Dear Mina:

    Loneliness is very tough to experience. We all need emotional support from other people, and to live without it is very difficult. I wish that the people in your life were kind to you, that would have been so wonderful, wouldn’t it?

    anita

    February 2, 2023 at 9:57 am #414883
    Mina
    Participant

    Yes. I’m so unlucky.

    February 2, 2023 at 10:41 am #414887
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Mina:

    I very much hope that your luck will change! I just quoted the Serenity Prayer to another member. Maybe it can help you, here it is: “god, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to  know the difference”.

    anita

     

    February 2, 2023 at 6:34 pm #414893
    Mina
    Participant

    Thanks

    February 4, 2023 at 6:18 am #414943
    Anonymous
    Guest

    You are welcome, Mina. Post again any time you feel like it.

    anita

    February 6, 2023 at 7:49 am #415073
    Anonymous
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    Dear Mina:

    I know that I asked you to post anytime you feel like it, and I intended to reply to you every time you post, but unfortunately, there is a high probability that I will be removed from the forums today, and therefore, I will no longer be able to reply to you. I didn’t want to just disappear and cause you to think perhaps that I chose to not reply to you. So, here I am to say (in case I am removed): goodbye Mina. I hope that something positive happens in your life very soon, something that will give you new hope. Please take good care of yourself!

    anita

    February 9, 2023 at 5:57 am #415187
    Mina
    Participant

    It is my mistake.  Unfortunately. I should never blame him ever. Just like me he deserves a happy life. The reason I fell in love with him was because he was so right. Even now he is right. Good wishes to him. It is very painful but then it is important.

    The medicinesI  have been given have such serious side effects.

    So , this is it.

    I will start afresh. Because as a learned Uncle said ok I forgot what he said.

    At least will my society let me live and die peacefully.

    Thanks Anita. Goodluck with your future and present.

     

    February 9, 2023 at 6:07 am #415188
    Mina
    Participant

    I hate my aunt and cousins who took advantage of me. I hate my ex husband because he used me. He kept demanding money if that was not sufficient my mom announced to everyone that I was dumped. It is not just because he was gay he treated me like dustbin. Both men in my life knew what they were upto whereas I was clueless.

    I am alive because of medicines otherwise quality and expectation from life has become zero.

     

    September 15, 2023 at 8:12 am #422136
    anita
    Participant

    How are you, Mina?

    anita

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