Boyfriend's weird fantasy, dont know how to feel about it

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November 18, 2021 at 11:48 am #388794

Rachal
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Hi Anita and TeaK,

His mother doesnt expect him to come back anytime sooner because he has completed his studies 3 years back and has been earning since then, same with me I have also been earning there for the last 3 years after my studies. And yes, we have discussed about returning back to India because I want to and he is fine with that he says I will if you want me to and he has also started opening bank accounts here and looking for business ideas here in India. So probably we should go for couple therapy before taking any step ahead!!

November 18, 2021 at 11:53 am #388795

Anonymous
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Dear Rachal:

I can’t think of a better idea at this time than quality Individual Therapy for him, and quality Couple Therapy for the two of you- best use of some of the money you are earning!

anita

November 18, 2021 at 1:03 pm #388796

Rachal
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Thanks a lot guys for hearing me out and giving suggestions and your time!

November 18, 2021 at 1:10 pm #388799

Anonymous
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You are welcome, Rachal. You are welcome to post again anytime you need to, and I do wish you and B well!

anita

November 19, 2021 at 12:29 am #388833

Tee
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Dear Rachal,

you are very welcome. If you decide to go back to India, it will be specially important that he resolves the issue with his parents, i.e. accepts that they may never approve of his marriage with you, and learns to live with their “disappointment”. I hope he manages to achieve that with the help of therapy. I wish you two all the best in your future life!

November 19, 2021 at 3:53 am #388836

Rachal
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I hope so too!! Thanks a lot guys!!

December 9, 2021 at 7:34 am #389617

Anonymous
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How are you these days, Rachal?

anita
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