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  • #388794
    Rachal
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    Hi Anita and TeaK,
    <p style=”text-align: left;”>His mother doesnt expect him to come back anytime sooner because he has completed his studies 3 years back and has been earning since then, same with me I have also been earning there for the last 3 years after my studies. And yes, we have discussed about returning back to India because I want to and he is fine with that he says I will if you want me to and he has also started opening bank accounts here and looking for business ideas here in India. So probably we should go for couple therapy before taking any step ahead!!</p>

    #388795
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Rachal:

    I can’t think of a better idea at this time than quality Individual Therapy for him, and quality Couple Therapy for the two of you- best use of some of the money you are earning!

    anita

    #388796
    Rachal
    Participant

    Thanks a lot guys for hearing me out and giving suggestions and your time!

    #388799
    anita
    Participant

    You are welcome, Rachal. You are welcome to post again anytime you need to, and I do wish you and B well!

    anita

    #388833
    TeaK
    Participant

    Dear Rachal,

    you are very welcome. If you decide to go back to India, it will be specially important that he resolves the issue with his parents, i.e. accepts that they may never approve of his marriage with you, and learns to live with their “disappointment”. I hope he manages to achieve that with the help of therapy. I wish you two all the best in your future life!

    #388836
    Rachal
    Participant

    I hope so too!! Thanks a lot guys!!

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