You know that scene in “Sex in the City” where Carrie get’s dumped on a post-it note? Well I was dumped via e-mail, but it had just about as many words as a post it not. After hanging out with you last night, I don’t think we should date anymore. I mean, where was the obligatory “thank you” at the end? Rude.
Oy. Not fun! That’s like a high schooler dumping you by sticking a post-it note on your locker door. Crappy! How someone ends a relationship tells you a lot about their developmental growth. This person has a lot of learning to do. Unless you want to continue to date a juvenile, you are way better off moving on!
I loved when you said “think about of this person as doing you a tremendous favor by providing you with the opportunity to create a relationship with another, mature adult.” What a great way of looking at it. When we let go of one thing, it often makes room for something better. 🙂
I totally understand.I was broken up with on messenger with what I thought was “The love of my life”(3 year relationship).And to rub salt in the wound she also told me she had met someone and was in love.Talk about a punch in the gut….