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    Jamie Hoang
    Participant

    You know that scene in “Sex in the City” where Carrie get’s dumped on a post-it note? Well I was dumped via e-mail, but it had just about as many words as a post it not. After hanging out with you last night, I don’t think we should date anymore. I mean, where was the obligatory “thank you” at the end? Rude.

    #30358
    Kelly Nguyen
    Participant

    Dear Jamie,

    Oy. Not fun! That’s like a high schooler dumping you by sticking a post-it note on your locker door. Crappy! How someone ends a relationship tells you a lot about their developmental growth. This person has a lot of learning to do. Unless you want to continue to date a juvenile, you  are way better off moving on!

    Warmly,

    Kelly

    #30438
    Terez Williamson
    Participant

    Jamie,

    That was such a cowardly way to end your relationship!  I completely agree with Kelly that the way a person ends a relationship reveals much about their character.

    I know you may still be hurting, but please think of this person as doing you a tremendous favor by providing you with the opportunity to create a relationship with another, mature adult.

    Wishing you much love and success,

    Terez

    #31228
    Lisa H.
    Participant

    Hi Terez,

    I loved when you said “think about  of this person as doing you a tremendous favor by providing you with the opportunity to create a relationship with another, mature adult.” What a great way of looking at it. When we let go of one thing, it often makes room for something better. 🙂

    #31262
    Eric
    Participant

    I totally understand.I was broken up with on messenger with what I thought was “The love of my life”(3 year relationship).And to rub salt in the wound she also told me she had met someone and was in love.Talk about a punch in the gut….

    #31275
    Terez Williamson
    Participant

    Hi Lisa,

    Without a doubt being unceremoniously dumped can be painful. Yet as you so beautifully put it, when we let go of the past,  we open ourselves up to the future with all its exciting possibilities.

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    Canadian Eagle
    Participant

    Breaking up is hard , is there a good way to break someone heart ?

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