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Could a man be intimidated that his brother slept with same woman?

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  • #310441
    Lisa
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    This guy sleeps with this woman although he have a relationship with another female. Since he cannot devote his time to that lady they have a fallen out. The brother steps in and starts sleeping with the same woman without him knowing. He finds out and they stop talking for a short term. Later on yrs down the line the original two hook back up. Now when those two get together and go out in public or if anyone calls he will introduce the young lady as the woman who the brother loved and fell in love with also moved in with.

     

     

    #310465
    Anonymous
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    Dear Lisa:

    My answer: if a man sees women as sexual objects (referring to women as “females” often indicates this view, as well as referring to women in more derogatory terms like b*&*)- then he wouldn’t be intimidated that his brother slept with the same woman.

    Lots of men view women as sexual objects and lots of women go along with this view, accommodating it- referring to other women as “females” (or more derogatory terms), engaging in sexual relationships with those men who treat them as sexual objects (sometimes acting nice to their.. sexual  objects, it is part of the deal).

    Traditionally it is men who view women as sexual objects- that is the basis of the pornography industry. It is not a good feeling for a woman to be viewed this way, as a body meant for a man to use so to satisfy himself, then moving on to.. another female. Not a good feeling, I don’t think.

    anita

    #310471
    Lisa
    Participant

    Not sure I understand y our answer. The guy brings it up all the time as said above. Maybe it bothers him that the woman he was sleeping with for a long time was in a sexual relationship with his brother.

    #310477
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Lisa:

    What I was saying is that if a man sees a woman as a sexual object than he may be okay with his brother having had sex with her at an earlier time. But after reading your recent post, I may be wrong, so I will restate:

    If a man sees a woman as a sexual object, as sort of a sexual toy, if he is okay with sharing his toys, then he may not be bothered, but if he doesn’t like to share his toys, then he may be bothered.

    anita

    #310483
    Lisa
    Participant

    The actions that is shown maybe I didn’t mention this above but I thought I did he was mad at the brother and they didn’t talk for a while.That was many years ago. The brother always takes punches and bring up them two together. In a way they said they think it still bother him because he was dealing with this woman for some time. He always tell other people he was in love with her and moved in. I guess being sarcastic. If the female ask about his brother he will get an attitude.

    #310485
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Lisa:

    The two brothers are not good with each other then, giving each other a hard time, regardless of the woman- did I understand correctly?

    anita

    #310495
    Lisa
    Participant

    I believe they are now but I think from what they are gossiping about is he can’t let it go. See he is involved with the woman again so I guess any shot he can take he takes on her.He is good with his brother but he makes smart remarks to her and he jokes about it to her. Maybe he feel some kind of way because he was with a woman just to have a place to stay. This female he was with but spent time with the brother and took away his time.

    #310501
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Lisa:

    “This female he was with”- it offends me to read about a woman being referred to as a “female”.

    I tried to communicate with you on a few of your threads but either you don’t understand me or I don’t understand you (I am at a loss at this point regarding the content of this thread and what it is that you are asking in this thread).

    Therefore I am withdrawing from this and future threads you may start,  and I hope you have a meeting of the minds/ an understanding with other members.

    anita

    #310503
    Lisa
    Participant

    no sweat off of my back lol

    #310543
    Peggy
    Participant

    Hi Lisa,

    Very confusing to know which brother you are referring to.  Brother no. 1 was having an affair.  Brother no. 1. fell out with this woman.  Brother no. 2 took up with said woman.  Is Brother no. 1 capable of jealousy – YES!  Is Brother no. 2 capable of jealousy – YES.  Is the woman in question capable of winding the situation up by asking about said other brother – YES.

    If this woman is sleeping with boyfriend’s brother, it is to get back at boyfriend no. 1.  I’m suggesting that’s why they fell out in the first place and I am suggesting that the resentment is still in existence.

    I would not tolerate my ‘boyfriend’ introducing me in such an appalling way – how can it do anything other than humiliate the woman in question.  Why exactly is he with her?  Does he see her as a trophy?  Why is she with him?

    Bad News every step of the way!

    Peggy

    #310583
    Lisa
    Participant

    sorry for being so confusing. Anthony is the first brother and Tommy is the 2nd brother. Anthony had already had a girlfriend so his time wasn’t committed to the female Susan. Once Anthony and Susan stopped dating Tommy stepped in without Anthony even knowing about it. This was yrs ago. Now that Anthony and Susan hang out together again he throws it up in Susan face but in a playing type of way. I am not sure if there is any jealousy there at all but Anthony always makes it a point to bring up Tommy and how he was in love with Susan.

     

    thanks for response

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