It’s hard to tell if it’s anything abnormal from what you’ve written. LIfe is a cycle; birth and death, ebb and flow, etc. Perhaps you aren’t living a fulfilled and passionate life and the monotany is weighing you down and you are asking yourself if this is it.

What about your situation seems off? What thoughts are you doubting?

I believe that the emotions we experience are generated from our inner self. I would hazard to guess that your inner self is telling you to take time for yourself, that there is no need to rush anything.

You have just out grown a toxic relationship. What a blessing! Breathe. Cleanse. Heal.

What you see as “not missing him”, I see as you being content alone. That is a very good thing for anyone. It is as it should be.

Sassypants, I think your hestiation and doubts seem understandable considering your cirumstances. In my experience, I tend to be very skittish when I get out of toixc relationships. It took me a while to trust my feelings and motives again after an experience like that. I can also relate that you weren’t prepared for the new relationship to be going so fast so quickly.

Perhaps you need to give it time or perhaps he’s not right for you right now, but either way you sound like you are on the right track. How soon after the six year relationship did you get involved with the new guy?