I broke up with my bf because I was scared, he stopped loving me and wanted someone else. I don’t know if I should have waited until everything went back to normal. I’m lost I don’t know if I made the right choice breaking up with him. I wish I had opened up and told him about the things he did that hurt my feelings, but I didn’t and here we are not together. Even now I could still send him a message but that’s not fair. I hurt his feelings. I don’t know I’m lost. I also feel like he deserved better. I feel like I just self-sabotaged my relationship because we couldn’t communicate. It sucks.
Dear Gabrielle
I am sorry that you are struggling because of your decision to break up with your bf. can I ask how long were you together for?
Did he ever do anything that made you feel/believe that he would leave you for someone else or stop caring about you?
In what ways do you feel that the pair of you were not communicating well?
Roberta
I hear how torn you are about the situation, doubting your decision to break up with him, wanting to reach out to him but feeling it won’t be fair to him.
You’re not alone with this kind of inner conflict. Many breakups are not smooth, leaving a person at peace.
If you did reach out to him, what would you say in that message?
I just wanted to check in gently. You don’t have to answer anything if you’re not up for it. I just hope you’re being kind to yourself while you sort through everything. Breakups can stir up so many conflicting feelings, and it’s okay to take your time.
If you ever feel like sharing more, I’m here.
✨💛🌤️🤍Anita
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