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  • February 20, 2018 at 8:12 pm #193631
    Jen
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    I’m single and have been dating for awhile. I don’t know if it’s cause of timing or if I just haven’t found the right one yet, but I am feeling frustrated and a bit discouraged with finding love. I want to meet someone that I can share my life with.  I’m constantly thinking is it something i’m doing or not doing … what is it that the universe need from me to connect me with the right person…

    Any advise or wisdom to help me stay positive and hopeful is much appreciated.

    Thanks

    Jay

    February 20, 2018 at 8:40 pm #193641
    VJ
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    Hello Jen,

    I can understand your situation and yes it is truly frustrating.

    While you carry out your conversation with other members on this thread, I suggest you to take a look at the below-

    1) Below is a nice article on this topic

    How to Find Real, Lasting Love Without Looking for It

     

    2) The 21 points in the below link are from the members on TinyBuddha.

    Those points are on the very last post (#123585) of that thread.

    Clicking this link will directly take you to that post #post-123585

    How to find love?

     

     

    Take Care,

    VJ

    February 21, 2018 at 4:39 am #193683
    Inky
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    Hi Jen/Jay,

    Many people find someone through people they know. I would be very honest with all your friends, family and work colleagues. Tell them you are ready to meet someone. They may invite you to their cousin’s party where you’ll meet their best friend’s neighbor.

    That’s how it happened for me. Our step brother introduced my sister to her future husband and then her in-law introduced me to my future husband at a mutual friend’s party. And no, we don’t live in Appalachia. LOL

    The other strategy is to stop looking and let it happen to you. Which is how my husband claims it happened for him.

    But it’s really because my sister’s in-law dragged him to a party.

    Best,

    Inky

    February 21, 2018 at 7:57 am #193709
    Eliana
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    Hi Jen,

    They always say when “we are not looking” love will find us. Right now, sometimes we try to hard, sometimes men can sense this, and can be scared off. I guess the truck is to focus less on dating or finding “the one” and just enjoy your single status. Try to enjoy some hobbies, passions, volunteer work. Maybe dabble a bit on “online dating sites” but don’t take them too seriously. When you find you are enjoying yourself and your single life and happy, men will be attracted to that, and before you know it, you will be getting dates. Try to remain patient. God has good things in store for you. x

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