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  • #196497
    Matthew
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    Hello everyone,

    lately i have been feeling very self conscious about the way I look I’m not sure how to deal with it and has been getting me very upset, it’s like I can’t walk around town without feeling some one is looking at me.

    #196521
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Mathhew:

    I can’t see you. I can only read what you type. Does that make you feel  comfortable?

    If so, tell me more, more about feelings self conscious and how were you anxious before lately, before focusing on how you look?

    anita

    #196525
    Matthew
    Participant

    are we able to post pictures, so you know what I look like? Well when I look in the mirror I feel disgusted about the way I look all the time

    #196529
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Matthew:

    You can post a picture to replace the Buddha face above your name, but if you do, I do not intend to comment on your photo. Didn’t you already ask people what they think of the way you look and no matter what they said, it didn’t help?

    anita

    #196537
    Matthew
    Participant

    This is me in the profile picture, and yes I have asked many people and a couple say I look cute but not sure if they mean it.

    #196551
    Peter
    Participant

    Hi Mathew

    What is ugly? Do we feel our thoughts? Become our thoughts?  How does our consciousness become fixated on a thought that  only exists because we are fixated on it. It makes no sense… yet I fully relate we feel what we feel and there is a time for everything.

    When you look in the mirror, what do you see? Do you see the real you, or what you have been conditioned to believe is you? The two are so, so different. One is an infinite consciousness capable of being and creating whatever it chooses, the other is an illusion imprisoned by its own perceived and programmed limitations. – David Icke

    What the mirror can’t show you is who you really are; a devoted parent, sibling, a hilarious friend, an adventurous soul.  Sometimes when we get overly caught up in appearances it becomes IMPOSSIBLE to be present in our lives.  And then we miss things, big things, little things, … everything. – Marla Chicky

    When Negative Thoughts Keep You Down: How to Break the Addiction

     

    #196553
    Matthew
    Participant

    When I look in the mirror I see a Broken man, and I started feeling like this a couple of weeks ago, I was watching Tom Holland in Spider-Man homecoming, and all my friends who are girls say oh wow he’s so good looking, and made me feel down.

    #196579
    Peter
    Participant

    Tom Holland was a illusion on the screen and you were with friends… Who would I rather be in that situation… you

    That said something that has nothing to do with your looks or who your friends find ‘good looking’  is bothering you. If you dig deeper what does your authentic self want from you but that you are resisting.

     

    #196585
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Matthew:

    Tell me more about the “Broken man” you see in the mirror, more than the two or three line posts you typed so far. I would like to  know more.

    anita

    #196615
    VJ
    Participant

    Hi Matthew,

    I don’t see anything wrong in your display pic. It is not your looks but your thoughts about your looks that is causing the problem.

    What do you have to say about Lizzie Velasquez​ – bullies Called Her ‘World’s Ugliest Woman’

    Take a look at the below 2 videos-

    (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c62Aqdlzvqk)

    or Same Berns

    (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=36m1o-tM05g)

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