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  • November 6, 2022 at 11:43 am #409702
    Mr. Ritz
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    That could be part of it.
    It seems to be certain areas. For example, I can work on a car with no problem (apart from physical limitations now).
    Maybe it’s just inexperience?

    November 6, 2022 at 12:02 pm #409703
    Anonymous
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    Dear Mr. Ritz:

    “Maybe it’s just inexperience?“- yes, in regard to the latest, basement project, being inexperience takes away from confidence. But in regard to doubting your choices, such as whether you should or shouldn’t have gotten a dog: do you often or regularly doubt your choices after the fact?

     

    anita

    November 6, 2022 at 12:07 pm #409705
    Mr. Ritz
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    “do you often or regularly doubt your choices after the fact?”

    Of course I do. Lots of buyers remorse on this house for example.

    November 6, 2022 at 12:32 pm #409706
    Anonymous
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    Dear Mr. Ritz:

    Chronic Regret is a painful way to live, meaning: you choose something then double guess yourself and regret, choose something else and regret again. I used to regret a lot, double and triple guessing myself and suffering a lot this way. It’s a mental-emotional habit born in a childhood where a parent repeatedly tells you that what you choose is wrong (that’s all it takes).

    anita

    December 24, 2022 at 12:20 pm #412580
    Anonymous
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    MeRRy ChRistmaS, Mr. Ritz!

    anita

    December 24, 2022 at 1:01 pm #412598
    Mr. Ritz
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    Thanks, same to you.
    We got hit with a blizzard and all Christmas plans are off, but we are sitting here watching movies and cooking.

    December 24, 2022 at 1:17 pm #412600
    Anonymous
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    Dear Mr. Ritz:

    Thank you! The weather here is not pretty either, but the frozen old snow is currently melting, so that’s a good thing… Sitting watching movies, fed and warm isn’t that bad, is it.. ? I hope that 2024 is a better year for you, hoping that (looking at the title of your thread), hoping that you will get what you truly need (if not what you want).

    anita

    December 24, 2022 at 7:43 pm #412612
    Anonymous
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    I skipped a year, I hope 2023 is a better year (and later, 2024 as well)

    anita

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