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    Poppyxo
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    Hi Connie,

    I’m not sure if I’ve said before but I’ve been in your position, so know how you feel.
    What you need to realise is that you will probably never know his thoughts, feelings or why he is actioning the way he is. You need to stop trying to find the answers by questioning him & the situation. You’ll drive yourself mad, if you haven’t already! He probably doesn’t want to completely let go of the fact you two have ended, & holding onto your stuff is the perfect way to keep you in his life, even if not directly. Once you have collected your stuff you’d have no reason to contact him, which he may not like the thought of. This is also a bit of control on his part, you may only get the stuff when HE gives you permission to do so.

    Can I ask what the stuff is?

    #182109
    Anonymous
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    Dear Connie:

    I hope you do experience peace of mind, in regard to this man, and otherwise. Since the rest of the stuff is not important to you, better indeed give up the pursuit for it. Better indeed move on, as there is no future and no promise in this past relationship. Be it in your past. Better look forward to something… well, something better.

    anita

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