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  • #285903
    Anonymous
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    Dear Jay:

    Reads like better leave it as is. The only point I insist on is that you don’t allow yourself to be directly mistreated by your sister, to not cooperate with her putting you down. If you are okay with your promised inheritance being depleted, then let the two of them, your mother and your sister live their lives as they are living it.

    anita

    #286023
    JayJay
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    Dear Anita,

    I agree with all you say above.

    I agree that I will no longer let my sister mistreat me. In future, I will simply turn my back on her and walk out if she starts putting me down. yes, I’m ok with an inheritance being depleted, because it isn’t an inheritance until you receive it.

    So I will take your very good advice and see what happens.

    I thank you for all your help in working through all this with me. I will keep you updated if anything happens to change my decision not to interfere.

    It’s a compromise, but it’s one that I can work with. 🙂

    #286027
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Jay:

    You make an excellent legal and practial point: it isn’t an inheritance until you receive it.

    You are welcome and I am looking forward to read from you (on this thread, on a new one you may start and as you reply to others’ threads) anytime you post.

    anita

    #286165
    JayJay
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Thank you for all your advice. It’s been hard to work through this one and I appreciate all the time and thought that has gone into your posts to me.

    I will certainly try to help others as I have been helped myself.

    Jay 🙂

    #286177
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Jay:

    I am glad you are here and your input in others’ threads, like your most recent that I just read, is excellent!

    anita

    #286533
    JayJay
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Thank you for your kind words. 🙂

    My sister mentioned ‘our inheritance’ yesterday. I simply said, ‘we’ll have to wait and see what happens.’ and refused to get drawn into a stressful conversation. It worked. I didn’t get stressed, and she was denied the chance to wind me up.

    I’m going for a holiday next week. I intend to just be quiet, walk the dog beside the sea, and generally detach myself and de-stress. 🙂

    #286545
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Jay:

    You are welcome. Good interaction on your part with her. Walking by the sea reads like an excellent plan- the sound the waves and the look of the deep-blue-sea is beautiful.

    anita

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