thanks so much for your reply/advice! i just have one question what does “Galen” mean?

“The best thing that can Galen is you see a guy you really like wants you more than her (Or anyone else).”

@comfixit oh okay makes more sense! haha. i appreciate everything you say. even some of my ex’s in the past have mentioned her in ways i felt uncomfortable or in my paranoid mind thought they were making comments about her because they were interested in her (hard to explain). A (somewhat bad) example would be: a boy i was with once asked me if i told my friends about how good in bed he is as we were”sexting” one day. The problem was that she is literally my only good friend, which he knows, and i felt like he was just trying to find out what she thought about him to boost his ego.

@comfixit well number one, i definitely dislike those feelings of jealously. i don’t think i have the confidence in myself to subside that feeling completely though, meaning i have nothing that’s ’better’ than her to help me fall back on to give myself that confidence boost. especially in the looks department. i’ve had an experiences before with a different friend with a boy i liked where they would go behind my back.

i don’t know if that carried over to her even though i’ve been friends with the two girls for the same amount of time! so basically my feelings get hurt and i get anxious about going out with her and her meeting people that i am close with and those feelings suck! it’s especially hard to talk about that with others as well. just dont know what to do about it…

number 2- the only thing that makes me feel better with any situation with her is that the type of boys we like are usually not the same. at least the kinds we’ve dated in the past anyway! i am not sure how i would feel if i didn’t have those paranoid feelings because i’ve never NOT felt that way. is it even possible? i know one boy i used to hook up with met her recently and now has been messaging her a few times to meet for drinks and what not.

i was even confused how they had each others numbers and when i playfully ask the response is usually a somewhat awkward ”i dont know.” i am not romantically interested in him but i was once so it still makes me feel weird. i also know she isn’t interested in him either and she’s the type to not ignore people because she likes everyone to like her so i am assuming she messaged him back at one point without telling me which is fine i just dont get why i feel so awful. so to your second question i have no idea?! i need some emotional guidance.