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    me myself and i
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    This is not to be a pessimist.

    I mean I know to expect the best, but I also want to focus on the fact that people will 90% want something from you. To stop me from paying attention?

    Not to be negative, I’m just really “overly aware” of vibes, I take on people’s vibes unconsciously. It gets in the way, but its goes so far back that i learned not to let it have much effect on me, I don’t respond,  react, or bring it into interpersonal interaction. Still it gets in the way. I want to totally move past even being aware that they’re there. Because I don’t want to care unless i have to. Empathy is good enough.  I know this!!  I want to stop feeling bad about and/or overly invested in what i sense. Because even when i vehemently say no the racket is in the back of my mind and I measure it. Its a huge distraction and draining. I want to laugh at everything and not waste my time on this kind of thing anymore I absolutely hate it.  Ever since I was three years old its been this way, so people seemed complicated to deal with. It got massively better as I got older. But I want to ignore it, I want to laugh at everything, and not have this .. waste of my mental space.

    Because emotional distance via empathhy is  good enough.  Still my subconscious mind is like 1 half of velcro, and people’s emotions are everything that can possibly get stuck to velcro.

    #185169
    Anonymous
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    Dear me myself and  i:

    I don’t understand and  I would  like to  understand.  If you would like to, can you clarify the problem you are presenting  here?

    anita

    #185203
    Peter
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    If I understand correctly you are an intuitive empath who is often ‘feels’ the emotion of others and sometime unconsciously takes on the emotions as your own… which can be very confusing.  Do you find your self wondering in the emotions your feeling are your own or if they are someone else’s?

    Such an ability, as are all abilities, can be a strength and a weakness. As with any ability you will need to make it conscious so that it does not impact you in unwanted ways.

    What line of work are you in? People with this ability can make great physiologists. It takes training to avoid the pitfall of transference by creating healthy boundaries.

    #185527
    Maria
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    Dear me myself and i,

    I am an Empath. I remember my version of this struggle. I offer this to you as it has brought me lasting Peace and a Quiet mind. A change in your perspective regarding ‘expectations’ is my recommendation.  Instead of ‘expecting the best’ .. try not expecting anything.  I don’t mean expect nothing. Get me? When you don’t Expect anything you are never disappointed, and sometimes you are pleasantly surprised! This practice may help you to live in the Now, Peacefully. Much Love and Blessings of good fortune.

     

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