August 9, 2017 at 11:46 am #163126
im a pan-sexual female. im not scared to share that because its true i would be lying to myself if i denied that. people at school have always told me i choose what i am that's like saying someone wants to be raped or killed. i am the way i am from experience people are born gay or something in their childhood made them that. sometimes when people are raped by the opposite sex they simply stop liking that gender for sexual attraction other times when someone is raped they tend to find the people who treat them wrong. the reason for that is the brain reacts in different ways with different people. for people who don't know what pan-sexual is is when your attracted to someone based on their personality and not genitals or gender. i could write all day about how the LBGT community is wrongfully treated in modern society. if you feel the same way please reply with your opinions i dont care if you dont agree with what i said please reply with why you disagree.August 9, 2017 at 8:33 pm #163206
Thanks for explaining what pan-sexual is…I never heard of that until I read your thread. However, that makes sense to me, to be attracted to a personality, vs what genitals that person may have. I am a female who is attracted to the opposite sex…but I believe whomever a person wants to be, whether it's to change their sexual orientation, or be attracted to the same sex, or be it to the other persons personality.I think it's good that anyone can express who they are and whomever they want to be attracted to and not criticized for it.
Going back to pan-sexual…you know in my line of work..I deal with men and women..and i find that sometimes I could talk for hours to some people..sometimes it's a man, the next it's a female..but it's because of our personalities with some that just click…so I get what you are saying and makes sense to me.
Did I understand your explanation correctly?
MacyAugust 10, 2017 at 2:20 am #163240
I noticed in your recent two posts that you are quite analytical, you look for reasons and motivations to human behavior. I share that inclination myself.
I don't disagree with anything you wrote here. And personally, it is not my business whether you choose a female or male as your future relationship partner, neither, I believe, should it be anyone's business but your own.
All that matters to me is that the relationship will be healthy, loving, respectful, a win-win proposition.
anitaAugust 11, 2017 at 11:50 am #163490
what do you do for work, just curious?
yes you did get the explanation correct and thanks for explaning it a little better. if you dont mind how old are you?
serenityAugust 11, 2017 at 11:55 am #163496
yes i do find reasons and motivation for behavior. its just i dont care what people think of my sexuality because its me and not them, if the disagree then i just like to hear what their opinion. most people who talk about lbgt people really dont understand it so if they disagree the i want to know reasons why.your a great person anita.
serenityAugust 11, 2017 at 12:04 pm #163502
Thank you, serenity. You are very kind!
I like it that you don't take what people say as The Truth, that you ask for reasons and motivations and then you evaluate what they say. And so, you decide for yourself what is true. I enjoy your threads and hope you will post again and again, anytime you would like.
anitaAugust 11, 2017 at 12:27 pm #163510
if i take everything personal than i would be a wreck everybody has opinion about stuff and personally i think that every opinion has a reason behind it. some people just believe stuff because of how they were raised as a kid. i know in my heart what i believe and im not going to change how i feel.
serenityAugust 11, 2017 at 12:55 pm #163518
My hat is off to you. You are a reason, indeed, for “LBGT Pride”!
anitaAugust 11, 2017 at 1:02 pm #163522
oh my god that made my day i cant thank you enough. ive read all of your other replies to others and your constantly helping and giving advise thats a true hero and role model. your amazing ❤❤
serenityAugust 11, 2017 at 2:12 pm #163536
I also identify as pansexual and I love that someones gender or sex doesn't affect whether or not I could be attracted to someone. I also identify as non-binary/ genderqueer, and we need the pansexuals, as people who are stuck in the gender binary are rarely attracted to us!
I just love that you are rocking your own colors too and sharing some LGBT+ pride! Stay true to yourself 🙂