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December 13, 2022 at 10:07 am #411799AnonymousGuest
Dear Ms Independent:
Silence is fine, and reading from you is better: to read that you are still here, and that your boy is healthy and happy!
anita
December 14, 2022 at 8:03 am #411819AnonymousInactiveDear Anita,
Why do people think they have to protect there energy from me ? All I do is self educate myself and try and heal myself . Sometimes I reach out to vent (big mistake). I live and I learn I will not reach out to them anymore.
Ms Independent
December 14, 2022 at 8:15 am #411820AnonymousInactiveRejection is ok .
December 14, 2022 at 8:31 am #411822AnonymousGuestDear Ms Independent:
I am not aware of you having a negative or dangerous energy, such that anyone needs to be protected from. I am assuming someone told you this? If so, what was he/ she/ they talking about?
anita
December 14, 2022 at 10:01 am #411825AnonymousInactiveDear Anita,
I sent this message to her –
Hey Dee, I scheduled a appointment with a psychologist . I’ve always struggled with some type of depression and the disabled child, the deaths made me feel worse. I want to feel better. Any advice on how you survived and thrived.
She didn’t respond to my message and made a public post saying how some people aren’t looking for friends they are looking for therapist , and that she could feel the sadness anger and denial and It’s time to get rid of these nobody ass people and get them out your energy .
Ms Independent
December 14, 2022 at 10:15 am #411826AnonymousInactiveCan you give me a example of negative and dangerous energy ?
December 14, 2022 at 10:18 am #411827AnonymousGuestDear Ms Independent:
You wrote in your first post today: “Sometimes I reach out to vent (big mistake)“- the message you sent Dee was factual and very short, and therefore, it doesn’t qualify as a venting message. I suppose it is a mistake to look for empathy where- unfortunately- there is none for you to have.
In that first post of the day, you asked: “Why do people think they have to protect their energy from me?“- it is unfortunate that the one who expressed negative, unempathetic energy is Dee, the one you reached out for empathy.
Instead of expressing empathy for you, she accused you of… misusing her (“some people aren’t looking for friends they are looking for therapist“), as if empathy and understanding do not belong in the context of friendship.
And she disrespected you by not answering your message directly, and by saying that you are… an “ass people”, is that what she said?
anita
December 14, 2022 at 11:00 am #411833AnonymousInactiveNobody ass people
Nobody definition – they are saying in an unkind way that the person is not at all important.
Ms Independent
December 14, 2022 at 11:12 am #411837AnonymousGuestDear Ms Independent:
It is not at all true that you are “not at all important“- you are as important as anyone, and not less important than any person in the whole world. You are not rich or politically powerful- but that doesn’t make you any less valuable or important than any one of the people in this world!
In your post before last, you asked: “Can you give me an example of negative and dangerous energy?“- yes, Dee’s indirect messaging to you, accusing you of what you are not guilty of, and referring to you as a nobody-ass-people is an example of negative and dangerous energy!
I wish she never did what she did, it makes me sad to think that she hurt the precious Hero I know… the Independent woman and mother (you) who deserve respect (not disrespectful, hurtful energy)!
anita
December 14, 2022 at 12:38 pm #411840AnonymousInactiveDear Anita,
By ignoring me Dee just taught me how not to treat others . I block and ignore people too without explanation.
Ms independent
December 14, 2022 at 12:56 pm #411842AnonymousGuestDear Ms Independent:
It reminds me of what is known as the Golden Rule, in its biblical (Matthew 7:12) expression, it says: “In everything, treat others as you would want them to treat you”.
For what reasons/ in what instances did you block and ignore people without an explanation?
anita
December 14, 2022 at 1:53 pm #411845AnonymousInactiveDear Anita,
This year I blocked 2 people . One girl I used to go to parties and drink alcohol with and another I used to smoke weed with . We created unhealthy friendships. Those things are no longer fun to me . They probably did it for fun , I was parting and drinking and smoking to numb pain . It didn’t solve any of my problems.
Ms Independent
December 14, 2022 at 2:10 pm #411846AnonymousGuestDear Ms Independent:
It is a good thing then, that you blocked the two- better if you explained to them why you were blocking them, before you did. It’s a very good thing to end contact with people who encourage you to keep habits that harm you (and your kid), so congratulations for doing that!
anita
December 14, 2022 at 4:48 pm #411856AnonymousInactiveDear Anita,
I’m going to patient with reaching out to people . I’m still creating a healthy routine for myself . Once I have my routine together I’ll have healthy energy .
Heal – To become healthy again or to recover from an injury
Ms. Independent
December 14, 2022 at 7:06 pm #411857AnonymousGuestDear s Independent: I will reply Thurs morning, good night to you!
anita
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