I’m feeling sorry after reading this….
It must be bothersome a lot; see if you can go and ask her all the questions you’ve in your mind. She is strong enough to close doors for you; see if you can be stronger to let those doors be open and fight for the answers you deserve. Sorry, but it makes me angry to see how people don’t value a relation, responsibilities attached to it and break it in fraction of seconds.
I would like to share….my parents always taught me and brother to not hurt anyone and just let go off certain things. And as we learnt this, I would just suffer the bullies by my cousin and friends in school. Now that I have grown up and realised it wasn’t right, I ensure nobody else takes me for granted. It’s actually the hurt from childhood to the lessons learned from past relationships. Anyways, the point is if we let one person come and hit us and we don’t object to it, other by seeing this might do the same to us.
Not sure, if I was clear enough to put the message across…
Wish you all the strength, courage, wisdom and love…