October 9, 2019 at 12:57 pm #316975MichelleParticipant
I just wanted to leave a happy update for anyone in this situation as I feel people rarely update.
So we have kept this going with no expiration date. So far it has been great. We don’t have anything forced but talk regularly. Sad because he left again today after coming back to spend two weeks with me. It has been pretty seamless so far and we have our next trip planned and he’s actively trying to move here. On his most recent trip here he also spent time trying to speak with people who will result in a job interview here for him. We don’t plan on cutting communication or stopping plans to see each other any time soon.
Feeling ok, although every time he leaves again it is sad.October 9, 2019 at 1:14 pm #316979anitaParticipant
Thank you for caring enough to return to your thread and leave a happy update. The relationship reads promising to me and I hope he interviews, gets a job and live where you are soon!
anitaAugust 11, 2021 at 12:49 am #384494MichelleParticipant
Since I have been going through a lot of emotions with my dad. I wanted to add to this thread to say something happy.
We are still together.
We didn’t let our relationship expire. Even with COVID and 19 months apart we kept going. We finally spent a month together recently
We are distant again, but we are still actively working to close the distance to be together.
You really never know which way things are going to go. I remember how sad I was when I wrote this thread, but everything ended up being ok 🙂August 11, 2021 at 6:41 am #384505anitaParticipant
What a delightful update!
August 1 2019, a bit more than two years ago (seems like ages ago, it being pre-pandemic), you shared this about your then beginning relationship/ love story:
“When we touch, when we kiss I feel the electricity. I haven’t felt chemistry and passion like this in years. Weeks later the spark is still there every time I see him. I want to touch him constantly I want to kiss him endlessly. We are that sickening couple that is all over each other 24/7. His hand always in mine. I thought it was just me, but he brought it up one night. ‘The night we first kissed I felt a spark in my head I can’t explain it. I couldn’t stop smiling the whole way home. I feel this thing in my head every time we kiss still.’ I feel it too”- this is beautiful!
Two years later: “We finally spent a month together recently… we are still actively working to close the distance to be together. You really never know which way things are going to go. I remember how sad I was when I wrote this thread, but everything ended up being ok”- glad to read this!