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February 14, 2025 at 12:46 pm #442863
Peter
ParticipantHi Anita and Alessa
Sorry for the mix up I need to pay closer attention.I am feeling a little better Anita but still finding it difficult to concentrate. You summed up my thoughts quite well and put in a way that may be less confusing to anyone following along. 🙂
“The sun is perceived to rise and set, but reality is that it simply exists. Similarly, love exists as a constant presence independent of our perceptions and experiences
I did want to add that there is a time for everything and that I’m coming from these topics well into the second half of life. Someone in the first half of life focus may be more on the filling of the ‘crucible’ then placing it over the fire.
Hope everyone has a good weekend and happy Valentines day.
The heart is the place of union where the luminous consciousness is made. . . . Human existence must reach out to transcend the world of forms that conceal the ultimate reality. This reality lives in the heart and must be set free at whatever cost. . . . Thus to reach one’s heart, to possess oneself of it, means to penetrate into spiritual life. The operation is extremely painful, and that is why the heart is always represented as wounded, and why the drops of blood issuing from it are so significant that they alone are a sufficient symbol for it. The religious imagination reveals the broken heart as the very best means to wisdom and growth, – Laurette Séjourné
February 14, 2025 at 1:22 pm #442864anita
ParticipantDear Peter:
Good to read that you are feeling a little better and hope you feel even better soon (no problem regarding the mix up!) I will reply a bit more tomorrow. Interestingly, I totally forgot it’s Valentine Day until you mentioned it. Happy Eternal, Accountable, Compassion-for-all Love Day!
anita
February 14, 2025 at 2:18 pm #442865Alessa
ParticipantHi Peter and Anita
Happy Valentines Day! ❤️
I thought I would elaborate on my thoughts about accountability and responsibility.
There are ways to not accept bad behaviour without having to rely on asking for accountability and responsibility from another person. Often these things go hand in hand with punishment and shame. It can easily be taken the wrong way or fall on deaf ears.
In addition, people are often different and expectations often don’t match. It is possible to ask for something, for someone to try and for the individual asking to still not feel satisfied because their expectations were not fulfilled to their standards. There is an element of judgement here. I feel like it is better for things to play out naturally without trying to cajole someone into behaving in a certain way. That’s why I’m starting to feel like asking for accountability and responsibility from others is unnecessary.
I don’t need anything other than to be treat with kindness personally.
Karma is unavoidable.
I find that simply maintaining my own boundaries, treating people with compassion and understanding is helpful.
The sun is perceived to rise and set, but reality is that it simply exists. Similarly, love exists as a constant presence independent of our perceptions and experiences
Yes, I agree with this.
What do the crucible and the fire represent in this metaphor?
February 14, 2025 at 3:17 pm #442868anita
ParticipantHappy Valentine Day back to you, Alessa ❤️
anita
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