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  • January 24, 2018 at 5:56 am #188525
    Mark
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    Connie,

    You are right by not going down a road where there is no winning.  Why do you want to develop a relationship with someone who is married?  He is out of integrity.  There is more to a good relationship beyond having “feelings” for each other.

    You are right in taking care of yourself by not having more contact with him.  You are adhering to your own values. Move on.

    Mark

    January 24, 2018 at 6:20 am #188531
    Inky
    Participant

    Hi Connie,

    I’m curious whether the wife knew they were in an open relationship LOL.

    “Open relationships” and “polyandry” is a fad. Don’t fall for it.

    At any rate, stop sending texts and pics.

    Best,

    Inky

    January 24, 2018 at 8:27 am #188567
    Inky
    Participant

    edit: polyamoury

    January 24, 2018 at 8:54 am #188557
    Erin
    Participant

    Connie:

     

    Don’t allow yourself to succumb to temptation and a false idea of a fairy tail.  Every time you think of this man, remember that he is married.  If you get involved with someone who has committed themselves to another, you are playing with fire.  In other words no matter how perfect he may seem – what you’re not realizing is that he is a “bottom feeder”  Anyone who would step out of their committed relationship for “fun and friendship” is not only betraying their partner – they are betraying you too!  Don’t fall for it!  With the chemistry you describe it is better to keep moving.  Just think of all the heartache and regret you will have avoided by aligning yourself with someone who is open and truly available.

     

    Don’t waste your time girl!

     

    Erin

    January 25, 2018 at 2:37 am #188829
    Anonymous
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    Dear Connie:

    You feel emotionally attached to a man you met three  weeks ago, and you feel sad and you felt “kinda depressed and sad” yesterday when you didn’t hear from him other than one text.

    In a July 25 thread last year you wrote: “I tend to be really depressed in the  morning  after  I  wake  up… everything starts fresh the next day. It’s a loop that  I can never get  out  of”-

    The “kinda depressed” feeling of yesterday, is  it the same depression you referred to last year? If so, do you remember when this depression started  in your life, that loop you “can never get  out  of”?

    anita

     

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