Yes, Alessa:
I am sorry for referring to you indirectly (not mentioning your name) in negative ways. I should have addressed you directly- that would have been the right thing to do. I wronged you and I sincerely apologize.
I should have told you directly that I felt invalidated by you when I felt that way instead of keeping it inside and then expressing it in ways that were unfair to you.
It will never happen again.
❤️ Anita