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  • #361673
    McCloud Antonov
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    I will come with your gift after I land in boston…… and. Maimi too.

    These are places I will be going through.

    Gregory

    #361674
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Gregory:

    Nina ona akawa vizuri sana- I wish I could hear your voice saying these words. You wrote to me that I am so kind: you are so kind yourself! Where in the US did you fly to in the past, and where in the US are you planning to fly to next month???

    Edit: I just read your recent post: you will be going to Boston and Miami? (But Miami is the epicenter of the pandemic at this time!) I live on the west coast, while you will be on the east coast.

    anita

    • This reply was modified 4 weeks ago by anita.
    #361723
    McCloud Antonov
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    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for nice words you vividly expressed out for me. I appreciated you Anita, thanks for your generosity and hospitality that you have on me here.

    On the past I flown to Arizona and Lusaka where I renew my medical exam.

    I will always keep you safe in my life.

    Again I have something to share with you.

    Where I came from that is Tonj : is a place where by people will begin to talk about you and wish anything bad to happen in your life.

    Anita,,,,,  marrying my estranged wife has created me to have a lots of disrespect from my age-mate whom we grew up together. Now everyone is talking about me that why did Gregory, marry this girl who has no respect at the first place? I got no value at the moment due to this married I had been wrestling with.

    I understand I can’t do anything for their interest but whatever happens ,  has happened already,,  due to the mislead of people who are jealous toward me.

    Anita,,,,  I’m a fighter who struggle for the betterment of my own life and my beloved son Christopher Agoth Gregory,  thou I have persist with the disrespect from my own young mate who have never defeated me in any life status or Academic studies in class or any other things that could be done manually.

    I got a lots of discouraging and hurtful words from my closest friend Martin Mabior mawien,  who have had been my favorite friend ever since I was young up-to date…….  Telling me most of the young men in Tonj 90% disrespect you because of your wife you marry those days. He advice me not to help anyone again who help your help from the airport and I should try to avoid whoever,  I will see as long as he is from Tonj. They also add on that “I cons people” how???? and where did I collided with them????  It is that people tried hardly to traced my number thou I could change it from now and then due to the disturbance for their calls just to help them to be put on board whenever, they want to travel to Tonj. Flight to our place Tonj are rare and difficult to be find……. So they try to look for me to help them but I still get back words in returns. I promise not to help anyone again and again. And I will try to avoid them this time.

    Good enough Kenya is resuming on 1st of next month which help me to go back to school early.

    Anita, I’m too annoyed with them,,,  too frustrated with their words,,,,,,  too extravagant with heir. I never which to have any problems with anyone in my entire life.

    Little did I know early,  that where u grow up is not a good environment u could be.

    I know very well I’m a fighter for my education,  a fighter for my life,  a fighter to see things are going in the right path in my life struggles.

    And I’m sure with the positivity that my son and I,  are going to do wonders in this generation and I promised myself I will be good example to others in life and not bad example at all.

    I will never allow any defeat completely in my life. I’m capable to go far in life. And I will be pointed in some days.

    Cheer Anita.

    Gregory.

    #361755
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Gregory:

    You are welcome. You shared that your peers, the people your age that you grew up with don’t respect you because you married the woman you married. One of your peers, your favorite friend since early age, told you that 90% of the young men in Tonj disrespect you “because of your wife you marry”. He advised you to not help anyone and to avoid people in Tonj, if I understand correctly, and he added that you “cons people”-

    – what did he mean by “cons people”?

    Reads like Tonj is not a good place for you to live. And if I understand correctly, you will be living next in Kenya?

    “I’m a fighter who struggle for the betterment of my own life and my beloved son Christopher Agoth Gregory.. I’m a fighter for my education, a fighter for my life, a fighter to see things are going in the right path in my life struggles. And I’m sure with the positivity that my son and I, are going to do wonders in this generation, and I promised myself I will be good example to others in life, and not bad example at all. I will never allow any defeat completely in my life. I’m capable to go far in life”-

    – I respect you for these things and admire you too. You have my outmost respect and appreciation for all that you wrote here.

    Cheers back to you,

    anita

     

    #361761
    McCloud Antonov
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for the nice insightful words and apparently ,,,,, my friend used the term “Cons people ” somebody who get money of someone and run 🏃 away with them. Yet just that I have never try to do such in my life……  I’m the one paying for my piloting training in flying school which is more expensive course on earth. How can I get somebody money and run away with them just the little thing for ticket which is 100$ what can I benefit for? Yet I always try with my whole heartedly  to put people on board without paying anything in the aircraft and I told them to used their money they are supposed to buy the tickets,,,,  to use it at their final destination.  I have seen been loyal to people is a problematic. I will never try to help them at all. Besides,  back to the topic of my estranged wife who left last year……  I don’t understand why they disrespect me and I haven’t asked anyone from Tonj one day to help me. What constitutes them?  What concerns them in?  No body I bother to ask for anything.

    Thanks  Anita.

    Gregory

    This is too much for real

    #361763
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Gregory:

    Your friend accused you of being a cons, as in “somebody who get money of someone and run away with them”, a serious accusation.

    “back to the topic of my estranged wife who left last year.. I don’t understand why they disrespect me.. What constitutes them?”- they see your estranged wife going to bars, getting together with men, speaking badly about you, so they figure that you made a poor choice in marrying her, and they disrespect you for having made that poor choice: could that be the reason for their disrespect?

    anita

    #361765
    McCloud Antonov
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Their accusations are all lies due to the fact that I always remain  strong no matter how situation is tough for I keep everything under my pillow. Life is a straight line that is why a very single second that past can not be reserved.  I tried to find out today,,,,  just to dig out the term this friend of mine used on me…..  I send one of the girl to him to find out who talk negatively about me. This girl was once my class mate in High school and we still very close and I do help her intently.

    When she reach to this guy she just pretend to be against me and eventually the friend of mine speak out what he said about me negatively . He confessed that nobody talk about Gregory but I used that word to discourage him. In actual sense he never run away with someone money and we all know Gregory is a pilot,,,,,  he has much money than we have.  He had been helping a lots of people than we do.

    On the topic of wife,,,  they are right anyway.

    But since ain’t together there is no other issues again and again.

    Thanks

    Gregory

    #361769
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Gregory:

    I wish people think of you according to who you are, not according to who your estranged wife is. She is estranged, after all, as in the two of you “ain’t together there”.

    I like the way you express yourself (edited grammatically just a bit): “Life is a straight line, that is why every single second that passes cannot be reserved”- you state things so well.

    anita

    #361772
    McCloud Antonov
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Homeland so called Tonj is a dangerous place to be. Who has got a lot of people chew you up with their negativity to defame you in the eyes of community.

    My father is proud of me since from day one I was born by my late mother who passed away 7 years ago. I have gone through difficulties during my life struggles of my education in Uganda – Kampala  as well as Nairobi and other different countries. I have known what is all about life and the benefits of education.

    I will never be block by their words. I believed in God and I keep my faith  a live. Let them talk but they will see wonders I know God wishes.

    Thanks Anita,  for sacrificing your time to go through my massage and replied me back.

    God blessed you Anita…..  Mommy.

    #361773
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Gregory:

    You are welcome and thank you for calling me Mommy. I wish I could refer to you as son, but I never had a son, and it feels so strange to refer to anyone as my son. But I do feel affection for you, and gratitude that you refer to me the way you do.

    It is bad when one is defamed in a community, and a shame. Good thing the world is bigger than Tonj, so your reputation is not limited to just one place.

    anita

    #361846
    McCloud Antonov
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Let me hope you are doing well. I’m sorry to hear that you don’t have a child. You meant ever since you were born u never had a child?  I’m sorry to for you Anita,  to have go through such difficult things in your life. How I wish if u were in South Sudan to go to local medical treatment that only take 1 week and you will definitely conceived your child. By the way you God has given me some words of wisdom and power when I say you will have a child,,,,,  u can no matter how old you are.

    Or otherwise if it is okay with you I can post the medicine with fly Dubai up-to US because I don’t send things to US and Australia too.

    Back to my issue it is just a matter of time and thing will be alright soon I believe that.

    I will never be shaken up by their bad words have a confident in me.

    How old are you now Anita ? Hope you are still in your 40 yrs. God be with you dear.

    Gregory.

    #361872
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Gregory:

    Thank you for your concern, but I am okay not having a child, or children. I decided long ago- when I was a teenager- to not have children myself because there is so much pain in the world. I figured, if I ever want to raise a child, and if I am in the situation to do so, I will adopt a child who is already in the world and doesn’t have a home, instead of bringing new life into the world.

    You asked for my age: I am old enough to be your mother, I have no doubt about that.

    I didnt understand “I can post the medicine with fly Dubai up-to US”- you want to send me a medicine?

    “I will never be shaken up by their bad words, have confidence in me”- this I do understand, and I am willing to have confidence in you, that you will not be shaken by false accusations and gossip!

    anita

    #361880
    McCloud Antonov
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for being simplicity in life.

    If God could asked me what I can for you….  I would of request to give you a bundle of happiness in your entire life.

    You are right person in someone’s life. I know you have uplift up so many people in this world.

    Much appreciated to you mommy.

    Gregory

    #361882
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Gregory:

    You are welcome. I appreciate you. It is you who is the right person in someone’s life, it is you who is uplifting me today, thank you!

    anita

     

    #361930
    McCloud Antonov
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Wow what amazing words to be appreciated. I’m more than glad to see such a beautiful words that you said about me. I never noticed how I uplift up your life??? Ghost it is my surprise to see this. I’ve always believe the kindness that you put into the world always come back to you. So believe me,  what you had done to me  ,,, to actually standing behind me in my dark time will one day be a surprise to your life.

    Trust me,  it will be like the surprise WEDDING WHICH WAS DONE BY PRESIDENT UHURU KENYANTTA in Nairobi in the year 1015, when the two couples went to the priest during church prayers,   “the young youth” to blessed their married without any marriage gown.

    Anita,  make more research about this wedding and update me. It was trending for whole week until President heard about this in the news n he eventually call the priest who blessed them to call them back for the real wedding. Wonders will never end.

    You are amazing mommy Anita…..  I have no anyone behind my education it is me alone without anyone supporting me.

    Now I believe that with God everything is possible,,,,,  thou there so many challenges I will one day overcome.

    Because I believe in myself and God as well….

    One of the weirdest thing happened last year in December. It’s goes like this…

    I received a call from unknown person whom I don’t know personally,  that he had been given my contacts by one of my in-laws,  from my estranged wife . Who wanted to be help to send his bag which was full of clothes of Chrismas ,,,, when I told him this is not my job and I can’t do this,,,,,  he begged me for days to help him. I told him to pay the money in order to give to the owner of the company so that they can take for him. To make the matter worst all companies where full and they couldn’t take any passengers.

    He came back to me and when I try to put his thing in the plane all the way to wau and I told him to inform his wife to go to the airport before the plane landed she also delayed until her bag got lost.

    It gave me a lots of problems and abuses that I didn’t send his bag. I told them I did what I could to help you but it came back as reputation to me. They said I have sold their things or give it to people around me to wear their clothes.

    They force me to pay them their money they bought all those clothes which were in the bag. I told them no problem I will give u your money. I paid him 200$ n I told  him one day I will get your bag.

    To make the surprise I had a call again today from WAU where I send that bag. Thatwe have got the bag. I told them to give it to the owner of last year and let me to her. I ask the woman was it good for you to abuse me that I stolen your bag? And now you have seen the bag.  I told her take your bag and I don’t  need the money I paid you last year. Do you know what she said?  That I’m sorry for all the words I have said on you.

    God blessed you Anita

    Gregory

     

     

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