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  • February 26, 2014 at 4:24 am #51816
    Anyone
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    My ex sent a bouquet of flowers at my office address. I went to the reception thinking she would be there; but it was the delivery boy.

    To not create a scene in my office and keep my personal life intact, I quietly accepted it; and put it in office reception itself.

    Sometime later, she sent mail saying ‘Thank you’.

    I don’t want to give her any fake hopes; although she knows that I’m not talking to her.

    Did I just commit a mistake in order to avoid any kind of chaos at my work place?

    If I send her any clarification mail; she will manipulate me more….I don’t want to repeat the past; which is why I have stopped all sorts of communication with her.

    Please suggest! Thank you guys!

    February 26, 2014 at 4:32 am #51817
    Purpose
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    Hello anyone… just relax in dis state of yours..and dont think about past experiences..
    i wud suggest u not to make any contact thru mail or text to thank her
    let your happiness and peace of mind be your priority rite now

    Tc

    February 26, 2014 at 7:01 am #51821
    Kelly
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    I’m confused – she sent mail saying thank you? But she was the one who sent the flowers to you? Was it a sarcastic “thank you” as in, “you should be thanking me for the flowers”? I don’t understand… I’m not sure what mistake it is you think you might have made. I agree with Purpose, focus on your own happiness and try not to trouble your mind with what she is thinking or doing. Good luck.

    February 26, 2014 at 7:29 am #51822
    Anyone
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    Kelly and Purpose, thank you for your reply.

    Kelly, it was in sense of ‘thank you for accepting the flowers’. And had a note saying…Seasons change and life will take you where you belong to – In my arms. Is love alive? Care always!

    It seems more of manipulation. She is a stone butch; who likes to have girls falling for her.

    I do try to overlook all this; but everyday there is some mail from her; bugs my peace of mind. And comes a point where I feel, WHEN will I be away from manipulation??? And I feel bad for myself, Am I such a fool that people just come in my life, manipulate me, make fun of me at my back……..It really hurts sometimes no matter how much I try to move on.

    Thanks once again for reading and being there!

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