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  • January 24, 2016 at 12:12 pm #93497
    Anonymous
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    Peace to you too, Seaisland: we were both wounded. And yes, if there is a suspicion on either party (you or me), let us ask each other what we meant by this or that, to clarify. I know you can trust me not because I think I will not make mistakes with you like I just did by projecting my old furnishing into your quote. I know you can trust me because I am not angry with you and I don’t have a desire to hurt you. so i don’t have to be careful. This way I know that if you feel hurt by something I write, that a clarification, once requested, will clear things.

    One thing I realized is that people often hurt others because they are angry and mean to hurt.

    anita

    January 24, 2016 at 12:57 pm #93499
    jock
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    that my head was so full of their opinions I didn’t or couldn’t block out seeing thru THEIR eyes

    seaisland

    that’s exactly how I felt with my older siblings. I was afraid to view the world through my own eyes. I didn’t trust my own instinct. Always check first what they would think. This leads to second guessing yourself, a trait I still have.
    Anita thanks for your analysis. re core belief “I still have to pay off my past sins.” It is hard to challenge this one but I am trying to. You’ve made me aware of it at least and I will try to be less masochistic about it now.

    January 24, 2016 at 1:02 pm #93502
    Anonymous
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    Dear jock:

    5 AM your time, in far away Australia. One way of challenging a core belief or any thought is preparing a prosecution argument and a defense argument like in a court of law, giving all to either side and taking it from there. You can try it, if you’d like, sometime. We can even try it together… maybe it would be..almost fun?

    anita

    January 24, 2016 at 3:48 pm #93520
    Seaisland
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    thx for the feedback Jock–yes, its almost like I run “their” thoughts thru the filter that is mine. Worrying about others judgement.

    I hope that as a step of becoming more mindful-somehow it will make my being more present have my own thoughts– instead of agonizing myself with other voices in my head.

    LOL hope that didn’t come across too loopy–I know what I meant. ( see there is a step in owning my thought)

    anita—thx for today

    off to watch another game–quality time with the Mr.

    Seaisland

    January 24, 2016 at 5:53 pm #93538
    Anonymous
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    Dear Seaisland:

    Sounds like a happy Sunday for you! I am hoping to get a better night sleep tonight… Best to you and until later-

    anita

    January 26, 2016 at 7:47 am #93745
    Seaisland
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    Thank you anita
    might not be typing much this week-but my mind and soul are checking in to seek any bits of wisdom I can apply to my own life– also to see how others are doing.
    lots of appointments
    hope you are well
    Seaisland

    January 26, 2016 at 9:59 am #93760
    Anonymous
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    * Dear Seaisland:

    Hope you are well too and that your appointments turn out well. Post here whenever you want to, whenever it may be helpful to you, to connect when you choose! It is good to know you are there whether you post or not or whatever it is you do.

    anita

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