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  • September 22, 2018 at 7:16 pm #226723
    Mangal Kavita
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    Hey guys,

    Sometimes I know my friends are busy with there life but priorities matter the most one of my friends startcriticising me because I fail in my career and start comparing me… without knowing my situation even they make distance at a time they are most important people of my life. They stereo saying me I don’t keep any expectations with people even friend so , I did it . I changed and stop expecting from people even family and friends but tell me why ,what about it how we understand ownself! ! People changed…. I keep a single thought in my mind , If have succes have people if not then everything against you even though the life! !

    Tell something,

    Kavi

    September 23, 2018 at 4:23 am #226759
    Anonymous
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    Dear Kavi:

    What I understood from your post is that you have friends who “are most important people of (your) life”. But they criticize you even though they don’t know your situation, and that they told you that you have unrealistic expectations of them. Did I understand correctly?

    If I did, how is it that your friends don’t know your situation, didn’t you tell them about your situation, and what expectations do they believe you have of them?

    anita

    September 23, 2018 at 5:27 am #226775
    Mangal Kavita
    Participant

    You understood correctly but they said me that kavita don’t keep expectations from anyone even from us too… I told about my situation but they criticise me and compare me… I moved on from all this and make my relationship with them without any expectations it’s good I know but…. my question is that how people can control there emotions towards friends!!!

    September 23, 2018 at 5:52 am #226781
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Kavi:

    I didn’t understand:

    1. What did your friends criticize about you, specifically?

    2. What expectations did you have from your friends, expectations you are trying to change?

    Take your time answering, maybe have someone help you express yourself in English, so that I can understand what you are trying to communicate.

    anita

    September 23, 2018 at 9:32 am #226809
    Mangal Kavita
    Participant

    M janti hu meri English achi nhi h iska mtlb ye to nhi m kosish karna chod du…. I never give up… I tried my best

    App shi ho help leni chiye but m trying ki m apna improvement kar saku!!! I’m small town hindi medium student but still I’m trying !!

    Come to topic… mere friends jo h bhut busy h h ajj kl unka final year h mene unse kha kmera kuch thik nhi chlra vo bus bolte h sb think ho jyega koi na and then start asking and compare me…. I said plz don’t ask me anything about others… that’s a problem! !

    Mere friends hmari dosti 8 years se h and this point of my life I need my friends but they don’t have a time for me…. or khte h kavi stop expecting n all… !! Bus yhi h…

    September 28, 2018 at 7:19 pm #228043
    greenshade
    Participant

    kahani agar apke ijazat ho mein ap ki post translate ker dun take bakhi log bhy parhsakein?

    Translation: kahani if I have your permission can I translate your post so others can read it too?

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