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  • #275555

    kahani ?
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    hey ,im kavita… well, i think everybody needs to first love ownself after that they could not fell alone , and about yours relationship , love is not enough to live a life or spending time with a guy our self respect or there behaviour towards us means to if you find that you cant stay in this toxic relationship because you are suffering , there is no mean to stay with him . i know it hards to apart but sometimes it is necessary for both people ! so keep your hand to your heart and close yours eyes and ask yourself , now are you happy with him or are you suffocating then you will find a answer… i dont know the situation exactly but you know if you really find your answer ownself then dont take more time ,leave him!!!!!!

    i wish you find any solution of yours probelm ! thanks

     

    #268225

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    My pleasure ?, I’m happy to know this..

    Thanks you too , for respect my words… keep enjoying ?. Stay blessed!!

    #268123

    kahani ?
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    Hey katie,

    How are you ? Are you overcome that problem…I mean these days all okay… friends n all !!

    #248469

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    I have to say a hindi quote…. jindgi m sabb mil jayega or hm khud paa lenge bus ek chij h jisko nibhana or sikhana khud padta h or vo ek art h! So , when you learn this art you will be happy more and more … I’m guaranteed!!!

    #248465

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    Hey Victor, first I wanna tell you one thing at end end of our life there is nothing more than relations or our love ones !! Whatever we achieve in our life expect name and fame,example <money > we earn enough money which left in this beautiful earth at the end of our life ,.whatever we take with us is people blessings or place in there heart.. so relations are important or worth !!

    <span style=”line-height: 1.5;”>But when some relations give us negative vibes and are not comforting is then leave there hands and move forwards and that is life… </span>

    #227027

    kahani ?
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    Sorry first I didn’t read all above conversation,  but yet I understand little bit… I give you a basic advice to overcome all this because I already feel this situation in my life and you will get strength soon…. it takes time but when you win to get this emotion in your self then you find yourself happy…

    First I want to know that , his parents don’t to marry there son with you that’s why he left you ? I mean what’s a reason and if he find anyone else then I will moved out with her?

    #227015

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    Helo laika… I read all above conversation but I think , your mind is controlling your heart these days , I think you want to be settled with your bf that’s why you are annoying with him and he is not cooperative to be settled in mean he is not working well , trying but not giving 100% .. did you think love is not enough,  need enough money to survive,  your mind is thinking about future and to be settled that’s why you are frustrated and feeling angry on him , you love him but thinking about future,  about him carrer , and feel sad for him which make you cry anger ,…is it correct?

    #226999

    kahani ?
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    Your welcome!! Katie ?if anything else can share… feel free to share

    #226927

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    Okay.. oh God… almost this year has gone,

    I think tumko apne parents se batt karna chiye or bol do ki vo girl ke ghr marriage proposal lekar jaye… and try open and communicate unko…. try again… I mean tum or tumari family agar proposal lekar jati h unko convince kar lete h tum 2019 m job hogi after completing masters then sayed mn jaye…unki family ko ye bhi samjane ki kosish karna ki kya fayeda ye kisi or ke sath khush nhi rhegi kya app khush rhoge… using emotional intelligence to your parents and her parents too…. hope you understand what I’m saying!!!

    #226913

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    First , I think first you think you are enough for you , you should enjoy yourself first like dressdup you feel happy and enjoy your company and start listening your favourite songs n all…

    • In college you must initiate first to talk anyone… no one is bad in this world ;some circumstances makes them ,I mean take initiative,  try to communicate,  start joke fun, party , some thins tell about you,  some listen them stuff… like that you start enjoying!!! Make plans tell them yours plans… tell them try something new… let’s play truth and dare., this game make people close and understand easily.. so like this .
    • But important first love yourself and enjoy… try to make comfortable with them and make more memories!!!
    • I hope you find some help in my suggestion!???#_being happy #_be smile ?
    #226911

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    • Okay… I understand… you told yours parents to go her parents and communicate girl parents about a marriage proposal…I mean her parents wants to marry a well settled boy okay then I think you should tell your parents to consive her parents. Now yours parents can do anything because her parents don’t want to talk you , but if they can talk  your parents then you must  told your parents and tell then you can’t survive without her , she is your strength n all… hope they understand your situation and try to communicate her parents!!!
    • What’s the problem of her parents, is it that you are jobless !!
    #226825

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    Hey dude,

    I read yours whole story and I really start crying,  mine first reaction is ohh my god…

    Let comes to you, the girls loves you too.. if yess then you must talk her parents and your parents too. You should tell your parents first that I love a girl I want to spend my whole life and if you parents understand and then you should go to girls parents and communicate with them and believe them a day after completing yours studies you will get a pretty job ,

    Told them you will do her marriage with another person but what next , she will never be happy then will you be uncle and aunty being happy… she loves me too we both are independent and what’s problem in it. I promised you that I will get a job just give me time… and I hope they understand.. just trying trying!!! Hope you get your love.. and spend whole life ,I will pray for you !!

    Try to communicate a girl and parents too… because it’s time to confess her parents and your parents too…

    Hope you find solutions !!

    Khanai!!!

    #226823

    kahani ?
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    Thanks anita,

    Actually whatever you are feeling and you are facing these days I already faced and i started finding solutions! But I had failed, I learn first to understand the problem which create disturbance to all us mind…

    So exactly I want to know the problem, I correctly understood that you are facing pain but what type.,I mean from yours family side and anything else…

    Plz explain me more about it..

    And the solution first find the exact problem and try to conclude it !! Then you can find a permanent solution…

    Ye sb mind ko samjane and it’s all about emotional intelligence!!!!

    Kavita ?

    #226815

    kahani ?
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    Welcome jenny Lynn…

    If you have to discuss anything then definitely tell me!! ?… kavita

    #226809

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    M janti hu meri English achi nhi h iska mtlb ye to nhi m kosish karna chod du…. I never give up… I tried my best

    App shi ho help leni chiye but m trying ki m apna improvement kar saku!!! I’m small town hindi medium student but still I’m trying !!

    Come to topic… mere friends jo h bhut busy h h ajj kl unka final year h mene unse kha kmera kuch thik nhi chlra vo bus bolte h sb think ho jyega koi na and then start asking and compare me…. I said plz don’t ask me anything about others… that’s a problem! !

    Mere friends hmari dosti 8 years se h and this point of my life I need my friends but they don’t have a time for me…. or khte h kavi stop expecting n all… !! Bus yhi h…

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