Hi Anita
I appreciate that you’re trying to talk about your desires, thoughts and feelings about the past but this isn’t really a positive interaction. It feels like you are just blaming me.
You aren’t the only person who has had to leave this website because of the difficulties in communication that we have both experienced. I’ve had to leave twice. I feel like if I spoke about the difficulties I have had you would be very uncomfortable with that.
You are asking me to promise not to do something that I am already not doing and you think that will make you feel better.
I’m sorry to hear that you haven’t gotten over our past difficulties and you still experience anxiety about it.
I’m sorry that I hurt your feelings doing these things. I can see now that it was a trigger for you as you have since spoken about the criticism you received from your mother. I didn’t realise that it was a trigger at the time. I’m sorry for doing something that was a direct trigger for you. I know that is really hard to experience.
I am just a young woman who has been through a lot of trauma. I was hurt by the way I was treat and when I reported our disagreement nothing was done by the moderation team. It wasn’t even taken down.
In the past, I don’t think that you understood the impact you have on this community. A lot of people just read before they ever post. People take a shine to you before ever speaking to you because they see your kindness and the way you help others. People are hurt and leave when they aren’t treat with kindness.
Love and best wishes, always! ❤️🙏
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