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Love is a Choice: 30 Ways to Love in Action

“We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.” ~Sam Keen

I recently went with girlfriends to hear one of our favorite beach bands play. Since I turn into a pumpkin at midnight, I talked a friend into taking me home early.

While walking to our car, we witnessed a couple fighting. There was no pushing or shoving.  Fists weren’t involved.  Bizarrely enough, this couple was on opposite sides of the parking lot having their fight over their cell phones.

Due to the volume of their voices, the fight was easy to follow. Apparently, she didn’t give a rip about anyone but herself (his point of view) and he was a control freak (her point of view). There was much discussion back and forth and the words weren’t very nice, so I’ll gloss over that. However, what struck me about that fight was how pointless it seemed.

Did that couple realize how lucky they were to have each other? I wanted to scream at both of them, “What if something tragic happened to one of you on the way home tonight—would this fight have been worth it?”

I see too many couples take their relationships for granted. They forget why they fell in love. They forget the dreams they had and the plans they made. They forget their promises and commitments. The “healthy” of their relationships is based on personal happiness, rather than doing what is best for the both of them.

Love is a choice, not a feeling or an emotion. It’s a decision you make every day of your life. Even when your mate doesn’t take out the trash, or spends too much time at the mall, or when your new haircut or outfit goes unnoticed, or when poor financial decisions set you back—you can still decide to love.

Love is for better or worse. And when you choose not to love, you’ve given up and given in.

It’s a decision you’ll regret.

Take it from a widow that wishes every day that she had her husband at home to leave the toilet seat up, or scatter Popsicle sticks and papers all around the couch, or smoke stinky cigars in the house, or forget to pay the bills or pick up the kids. All those imperfections about your mate are what you will miss the most when they are gone.

Choosing to love isn’t always easy, but it is worth the effort.  Here are some ways you can choose to love on a daily basis:

1. Let go of the little things. If you are truly honest, you’ll realize most of them are little things.

2. Give more than you take in your relationship.

3. Love without strings attached.

4. Communicate, communicate, communicate!

5. Look at the world through your mate’s eyes. Seeing things from their perspective helps you better understand their actions and motivations.

6. Pay attention to your mate. Look at them and focus on what they are saying or doing.

7. Before you blame, examine yourself first.

8. Let it be okay that you don’t see eye-to-eye on everything. Sometimes you just have to agree to disagree.

9. Accept and celebrate your mate’s differences and uniqueness. Face it—you can’t change them, but you can change your attitude about their quirks.

10. Validate your mate’s feelings. Don’t try to “fix” their perspective or contradict them. Accept their feelings without judgment or correction.

11. Hold hands.

12. Work as a team. You are life mates, not room mates.

13. Be flexible with your mate. While consensus is always the goal, sometimes we have to bend to the other’s wishes.

14. Share your vulnerabilities and fears with your mate. A load carried by two is easier than one carried alone.

15. Be faithful to your mate, both emotionally and physically.

16. Don’t hide things from your mate. Trust is fragile—handle with care.

17. Send love notes—a card, text, voice mail, or message on a sticky note or the bathroom mirror will do.

18. Laugh.  A lot.

19. Speak respectfully of your mate. They like to hear you talk about them favorably in front of others, but it means even more when you talk glowingly about them when they aren’t around.

20. Encourage your mate to be the best person they can be. Support their hobbies, learning interests, and passions. Be their biggest fan.

21. Apologize. And mean it.

22. Forgive. And mean it.

23. Develop couple rituals that are known only to you. 

24. Work on goals and dreams together. Planning is half the joy.

25. Public displays of affection!

26. Say “yes” more often than “no.”

27. Appreciate the inner beauty of your mate.

28. Accept and love your mate’s family and friends.

29. Schedule time alone together, even if it’s just a walk around the block or drive in the country.

30. Love yourself. You can’t decide to love another until you can decide to love yourself.

Loving another person isn’t easy, and it can’t be based on feelings or emotions that fluctuate like the weather. Choose actions that show your love, and make the decision to do it every day.

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About Cynthia Hughes Lynch

Cynthia H. Lynch is an educator, mother, and freelance writer living in the Deep South. She is a recent widow and writes about her grief journey on her blog www.27twenty-seven.blogspot.com.

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  • Krystle

    Thank you for this, Cynthia – and as always, I’m sorry for your loss. You have a beautiful spirit, and I’m thankful that you’ve chosen to share it with me.

  • annonymous

    This was such an amazing and inspiring article! Loved it and sent to it my “other”!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=728648028 Charlene Wood

    Thank you so much. From a woman who is twice divorced and now deeply in love and in a relationship with my best friend. I’m crying right now, because I already do all these things. I had to learn them all the hard way.  And that’s alright. I learned them. In my way and in my time. And I am benefiting from all my hard work and all my mistakes. Thank you for finding words. Thank you for sharing them here so that I can share them with others.

  • Anonymous

    ugh, no I am just being bitter because I am having problems

  • Karla Russek

    Loved loved loved it. so inspiring :)

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  • Tanja Gardner

    Beautiful post, Cynthia – thank you for sharing it

  • B O

    Funny how in my recently broken relationship, I can honestly say I did, or at least tried hard to do, the vast majority of those things, and the whole thing still fell apart in spite of it – maybe even, partly, because of it. Granted, the long distance nature of it probably accelerated its collapse, but I suspect it would have happened sooner or later. A relationship is a thing of two and if one doesn’t have the will to make it work, it just won’t, no matter how hard one tries. In my case, I may have failed at a couple of the points, but she failed miserably at more and more important ones, I think. She simply seemed to stop caring enough about me or our relationship after a significant change in her routine and environment.

  • Marialoveschristian2006

    Thank you for this post. Very inspiring.

  • Treeque

    Yes, this was my thought. If one person does these things, it won’t work.

  • High Country Girl

    What a beautiful post that made me smile as I thought about the love in my life while I was reading it.  And my Love did receive a little reminder that I was thinking about him after I was done reading the post.  :)  This post’s timing is interesting as just this morning I was reflecting about how a friend had met the love of his life and suddenly lost her to a brain hemorrhage.  No warning… one minute she was there, the next she was gone.  Let your loved one know you love them now… and often!  (I’m guilty of not doing it enough.)

  • Liza-mutly1964

    i love that . if all could do that always & to  each other

  • Cynthia Lynch

    Thank you for your sweet words.  We are not promised tomorrow, so we need to live and love each day as if it were the last.  Glad you did something special for your love.

  • Cynthia Lynch

    You are right…it takes two to make a relationship work.  One can’t carry the load alone.  However, if you’ve given your all and it does not work out at least you can walk away with  no regrets.

  • Cynthia Lynch

    It is easy to become bitter when there are challenges in your relationship.  But remember, bitterness is a poison that will seep into every crack and crevice of your life and destroy you from the inside out.  It is my prayer that things work out for you.  

  • Cynthia Lynch

    Your joy is evident in your words.  I’m so glad that you have found the right love and the right way to love.  We all learn the hard way, I fear.  That’s the way life is…first comes the test and the lesson follows.

  • Cynthia Lynch

    Thank you for your kind words.  Loss has brought out the very best and worst of me.  I am trying to use my “best” through my words.

  • Breada

    You must let it go, as the bitterness only affects you and sours your life. get up this morning and start fresh.

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  • Sandy Foster

    Some mates do worse things than leaving dirty clothes on the floor. Would love to see a rewrite for the spouses of hoarders, drug addicts, and the perpetual unemployed.

  • Sarah

    These are all valid points of advice but I would hate to see them misused to keep someone in a poorly functioning or abusive relationship.  “Say yes more often than you say no” only works if your partner isn’t asking you to do things that violate you as a person.  “See things from their point of view” only works if their point of view is respectful of other peoples’ boundaries.  “Accept and love your partner’s family and friends” only works if they are people worthy of respect, not if they’re turning a blind eye to abuse or actively encouraging it.

    I’m sorry for getting up on a soap box.  Normally I love tinybuddha and its various authors.  But I felt very strongly this needed addressing.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001642911068 Jen Nguyen

    The last one is the most important thing I have to do. I constantly look to others to feel loved… I cling to people who see the best in me, and once I’m not talking to them (when they’re busy with work or spending time w family) I feel so empty. It’s like I have to have them around someway somehow to feel complete.. it’s terrible. It’s been an advice I’ve had trouble following..I have my good days but most of my days are just so negative where I beat myself up on the inside.

  • Anonymous

    Cynthia,  thank you for the post…. I agree whole heartedly and learned them before I became a young aged widower years back.  For me it is especially timely and prompts a question if you don’t mind. 

    I’m curious if you share a common experience of mine.  I still enjoy memories of my wife (always will because there are so many good ones) and at times they just pop up and I share them with folks just as you share any good memory with family and friends…to share the happiness.  I believe that shared memories enrich our lives.  Anyway, recently, I’d gotten comments from an important gal that I cared deeply for to the effect that “you’re not over her yet”.  I’m certain that you are immediately thinking that I speak of her incessantly.  I honestly believe that I do not.  I would be concerned if my actions and decisions were being based off of what my wife would’ve thought but they aren’t.  I believe that I have made it through the “5 Stages of Grief” successfully.  

    I don’t know why sharing memories of a deceased loved spouse makes regular people uncomfortable.  I have heard this from other widows/widowers.  Is it something you have encountered as well?  How do you explain it to folks?  I mean afterall, we are uncommon and most people have never encountered young age widows.

    Good weekend!  

  • Eric

    Perfect!

  • Cynthia Lynch

    Falcon,

    I can not speak for others who have loved well and lost a spouse due to death, but for me,  erasing the memories of my life with my husband, both good and bad, would be an impossibility. We were together for 2/3s of our lives.  I don’t know how I could have a conversation with ANYONE without mentioning past memories of him and our time together.  

    I do understand how your special friend might be disconcerted by your memories.  However, for me, I will never “get over” the love I had for my husband.   It is for this very reason that I have chosen NOT to date yet. If/when I ever do decide to date, this will not change.  I am the person I am today because of my life with my husband.  

    The only person who will not allow me to talk about my late husband is his mother.  While I know that we all grieve differently, this has made maintaining a line of communication with her very difficult.

    I wish you the best!

  • Cynthia Lynch

    You are right, Sarah, and I appreciate you clarifying this for everyone.

  • sutraa

    Dear Cynthia,
    thank you for writing about this. I am currently in the process of moving on from my 5-yr relationship.I have tried my best to do all of these things in the course of the relationship and have encouraged my ex-partner to do it as well. More than anything, the relationship failed because he felt that we were too young to be in such a committed relationship, and often got sidetracked. My fault was to assume that it was the partnership that could last a lifetime and we both were ready for it. We have grown to depend on each other heavily; he needs me, but he does not want me. My heart has not stopped aching because of this.

    I am now trying really hard to keep my faith that I would find a partner who would continuously making the choice to love me, to want to be with me, and to commit to our love. I am struggling to fight the feeling of being unloved and unwanted, and I’m struggling to trust again. My only hope is not to be bitter in future because of my past experience. Thank you for reminding me to choose to love. 

  • TazChick

    I was in a long-distance relationship. I visited my ex-boyfriend in August-September for a whole month. Things didn’t go well. As he dubbed it, “a disaster.” Your story of the couple arguing outside for everyone to hear reminds me of one night where we went walking down the street near his apartment. We got into a nasty argument, yelling at each other quite loudly. A few weeks later, after I had returned home, he said he went into the place he used to work and a lady asked him where he had been. She mentioned that she saw him that night out on the street. My ex was so embarrassed he said he quickly left. He wasn’t sure if she had just seen him or if she had heard us argue. But my guess is she did hear us. He was embarrassed because he didn’t want to be thought of as someone who treats women bad. Although, the reason for us arguing all the time has almost always been me. 

    I have had extreme jealousy issues and insecurities. (Because of his personality, he gets along with many people and has many female friends, whom I have always compared myself to and to which I would usually start an argument over.) For the longest time I pushed him away because I felt like I didn’t deserve him and he could do better. I thought I was better before I went to visit him this past August, but obviously I still wasn’t able to look past my fears at that time.

    We are still talking to each other, but I am unclear how he feels about me anymore. Although, I am reading a book called ‘How to Love Your Marriage’ by Eve Hogan, and she points out that love doesn’t go away, it just becomes blocked. But I’m not sure if he would want to ever be together again. I treated him terribly for a long time.

    The ironic thing is, my fear of losing him to someone else, I really questioned myself last night and asked, “if he did cheat on me or leave me, would I stop loving him?” Of course, the answer is no. I have always believed he would never cheat on me (but feared he would break up and leave me) and now it turns out I would still love him despite that. Before, I couldn’t look past the pain I would feel if this occurred. 

    Saying that love is a choice is so correct. I took out all my insecurities on him and was too concerned about my fears becoming true than showing him how much I loved him. I am learning to love myself more each day and I hope we have a chance to be together again, but I am thankful for the time we did have together at least. 

    I know that my responses or reactions to the circumstances were not about the circumstances themselves. (Him having female friends was not a problem. How I reacted to them was). And I know that my negative reactions were based on my low self-esteem/self-worth. I know he has always been loyal to me. I was just doing everything I could to sabotage our relationship because I didn’t think I deserved it. I am slowly turning things around. Thank you for this article and your reminder that arguments are so silly when at any point in time, our loved ones could be taken away from us.  

  • Si Rino

    This is reallllly great! thank youuu

  • Shraddha Mehta

    Hey, this article is so perfect… You have expressed all the pain I have for a failed relationship in just few words! Brilliant! I also now know why it was not meant to be with my ex! :) I am happy that it is over… Constant insults & abusive comments were core of that relationship… 

    And now, I am ready to move on… I cant Thank you enough to guide me through with these tips to handle new relationship. :) 

  • JaeLeiNyght

    Amazing! Everything you said was true and I wish your loved one was still around to be loved by you.
    Thank you.

  • izza24

    I think it is very important in the relationship to never forget why they fell in love. In my situation right now, it seems like dreams, plans, promises were forgotten. People change though based on the circumstances. True he has a choice to continue to love me despite of having personal problems and i dont think it is fair that  the relationship is getting affected. I need advice like others who are going thru pain and this site is so helpful.
    I believe in this:
    “Love is a choice, not a feeling or an emotion. It’s a decision you make every day of your life. Even when your mate doesn’t take out the trash, or spends too much time at the mall, or when your new haircut or outfit goes unnoticed, or when poor financial decisions set you back—you can still decide to love.Love is for better or worse. And when you choose not to love, you’ve given up and given in.”

  • Alex

    I always thought that as long as you loved someone you didn’t need to work on a relationship it should just come naturally but as I got older and more experienced I realised relationships are like anything in life it requires work. But, just because you have to work at your relationship it doesn’t need to be difficult. So when either of you feel like your relationship has become a chore and you are at each others throats do yourselves both a favor and let the other go as not to hurt each other more.

  • Pamj

    Unconditional love should exist only from parent to child. Of course everyone makes mistakes, messes up the house, or has one too many drinks at a party. But on a regular basis, in an adult relationship, both partners should be able to give & take, and BOTH should go the extra mile for their spouse. No one should be a martyr or put up with abuse.

  • Nathan2174

    actions do not replace love. love is first a response that comes from the heart. There is no thought process which means love is not a choice, since a choice has to have a thought process.
    love is first then the action of it is after. Without love there would be no action. You can work on getting along with each other but that to me is separate from the real emotional connection. You can also say there is an action side of love but don’t say its not an emotion or feeling. I just don’t agree with that.

  • Muzikjock58

    yeah, i guess i should just gloss over being punched in the face, after all that’s just a little thing right? i guess having her reach over grabbing the steering wheel of the car and swerving into oncoming traffic to cause an accident …that too is just a little thing…are you kidding me? i guess you are assuming you aren’t dealing with a psychopath! you bet i got away…i had to run away…literally! and this is from a woman i loved.i gave up everything for this woman, house, job…everything familiar to me…just to show her that i love her.. i now live 700 miles and alone from this witch. i don’t ever want contact from her again…be careful to define your terms when you say these things…..all things remaining equal and you are dealing with an otherwise mentally stable person, yes…what you say is true…but don’t blanket your statements…..it will be years before i heal from all this mess. if i ever do. which is shameful because i love intimacy and sharing..i feel so closed off and alienated… and its self imposed alienation . this makes it very hard to trust anyone again.  can i say that i was perfect? absolutely not. no one is…but also no one deserves mental and physical abuse either….i wasn’t brought up that way and i wont tolerate it from anyone…for the 1% that this advice works for, i envy you . my parents were married for 52 years before both of them died…they died still in love with each other…i know what love looks like. seems i live in the wrong world to find it.

  • Muzikjock58

    i just wish that someone could write something practical for the real world …that could make me feel like i belong to the human race again…this sucks

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  • K.

    Dear TazChick, I just read your comment and felt a sense of connectedness as I’m going through similar emotions. I’d be very happy if you would like to connect and exchange thoughts. Please respond to my post and I will get in touch. Cheers :)

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  • Kyia

    me and my boyfriend are currently mad at each other over something really stupid. after reading this im about to call and apologize and tell him how much i love and appreciate him. this article is really inspiring. thanks.

  • Bene

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  • Ouranor

    Dear Cynthia

    I’ve been following “Tiny Buddha” for a looong time now, but your article has prompted me to post for the first time. I have said yes to so many of the important points you mentioned. But just yesterday, I have broken up with the biggest love of my young life BECAUSE: We did not have the same outlook on life (he never EVER wants to get married, kids aren’t important to him), he never wanted to hold hands, he never told me that he liked me, PDA was out of the question and no matter how much we communicated, there were only very little compromises from him, most happened on my part. He also never made any decisions (part of his character, as he told me) or initiated anything. Talking about the future was met with evasive and uncomfortable behaviour from him, which got more and more frustrating and hurt me. I do not wish to make him sound terrible, because I love him for his gentle and kind heart, his patience, his creativity, his generousness and his tender ways in bed (sorry if TMI). He and I click(ed) so well on an intellectual level (we laughed and discussed a LOT) and had a lot of similar interests, our chemistry was unbelievable as well. But despite all that, his emotional unresponsiveness just started to drain me after a while.

    Our relationship just wasn’t going anywhere and after having had my rose-tinted glasses off for about 7 months, I realized that this was not going to change. I also didn’t want to be the one to make all the decisions by myself for the rest of my life, which would have happened if I stayed with him (his words, my experience). He said that he never had a long lasting relationship and that he is quite emotionally immature for his age (he is 13 years my senior, he turned 36 this year). But I never wanted to change him, since he absolutely IS a wonderful person, he just needs someone who understands his minimalistic way of communicating affection and love and is happy with it.

    Since I didn’t want to ever change him, I realized that this was as far as I could go and that I didn’t have the energy to invest, hope and love this intensely anymore. If I hadn’t broken it off now, my reaction to the relationship failing could’ve been devastating at a later time.

    Of course I now feel intese sadness, regret and disappointment, too. But I’m also glad that we realized soon enough that we weren’t meant to be, because now we are both free to find our true love, our soulmate (even though I thought for the longest time that it was him). I for my part, and I know he feels the same, just wish him the very best and hope for him to meet someone who loves him the way I did and then some. Of course, I still dearly love him too, but I always will anyway. I can love someone without having to be with them, and he deserves all the love he can get.

    Sorry for making this this long. At first, I just wanted to say that a relationship can fail even without having any fights whatsoever, but my heart just opened up and wanted to share. My first post on this wonderful website being such a downer, how typical ;)…

  • goddess

    love til it hurts no more

  • Sophie

    This made so much sense. Thankyou.

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    That’s why you are mates, you take care of your Wrongs and make them Right.. And help them over come their problems, Love is Stronger than any addiction baby, If he/she loves you

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  • Katarina William

    Hi, I am speechless for the help I had from You …Everything has changed for good….no… for Great…I would never realise that I got back my Best Friend back after all the bad things I did and said… Well, I JUST WANT TO THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART FOR ALL YOUR HELP AND PATIENCE… Talk soon… I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST !!! Thanks a lot for your help! Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com

  • anno

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  • John Williams
  • John YiYi

    Hello I am AKPAMU,I am out here to spreed this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex lover back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month, But when i meet a friend that introduce me to DR SHAKES SPEAR the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to DR SHAKES SPEAR about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it has been done,In the next 2 days,My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact DR Duck at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve.. Contact him direct on: johnyiyi@rocketmail.com and get your problems solve like me….. ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: johnyiyi@rocketmail.com

  • Mr Anderson

    My name is miss joy brown, am from maim USA. i want to use this opportunity to thank my great doctor who really made my life a pleasurable one today. This great man Dr okunade who brought my husband back to me, i had 2 lovely kids for my husband, about 3 years ago i and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me for one lady. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows anAd pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, until one day i met a good friend of mine that was also in a situation like me but her problem was her ex-boyfriend who she had an unwanted pregnancy for and he refused to take responsibility and dumped her. she told me that mine was a small case and that i shouldn’t worry about it at all so i asked her what was the solution to my problems and she gave me this great man phone number and his email address. i was doubting if this man was the solution, so contacted this great man and he told me what to do and i deed them all, he told me to wait for just two day and that my husband will come crawling on his kneels just for forgiveness so i faithfully deed what this great man asked me to do and for sure after two days i heard a knock on the door, in a great surprise i saw him on his kneels and i was speechless, when he saw me, all he did was crying and asking me for forgiveness, from that day, all the pains and sorrows in my heart flew away,since then i and my husband and our lovely kids are happy.that’s why i want to say a big thank you to Dr okunade. This great man made me to understand that theirs no problem on earth that has no solution so please if you know that you have this same problem or any problem that is similar, i will advise you to come straight to this great man. you can email him at:(okunadelovespell@gmail.com

  • johnyiyi

    Hello I am Angella Ikpoi ,I am out here to spreed this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex love back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month, But when i meet a friend that introduce me to Prophet SHAKES SPEAR the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to Prophet DR SHAKES SPEAR about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,In the next 2 days,My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact Prophet JOHN YI YI at the following email address and get all your problem solve.. No problem is too big for him to solve.. Contact him direct on: johnyiyi@rocketmail.com. and get your problems solve like me….. ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: johnyiyi@rocketmail.com

  • johnyiyi

    Hello I am AKPAMU,I am out here to spreed this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex lover back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month, But when i meet a friend that introduce me to DR SHAKES SPEAR the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to DR SHAKES SPEAR about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it has been done,In the next 2 days,My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact DR Duck at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve.. Contact him direct on: johnyiyi@rocketmail.com and get your problems solve like me….. ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: johnyiyi@rocketmail.com

  • Shakes Spear

    What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don’t believe can just happen. My name is BRUCE SWIHART, from U.S.A am 25 years old i got married at the age of 24 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called Dr ogboni, he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him Dr Shakes Spear. I contacted his email address at (shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com) And i told him everything that happen all he told me is that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again. So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address:(shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com, if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems. THANKS..

  • Shakes Spear

    Hello I am Angella Ikpoi ,I am out here to spreed this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex love back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month, But when i meet a friend that introduce me to Prophet SHAKES SPEAR the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to Prophet DR SHAKES SPEAR about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,In the next 2 days,My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact Prophet SHAKES SPEAR at the following email address and get all your problem solve.. No problem is too big for him to solve.. Contact him direct on: shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com . and get your problems solve like me….. ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com

  • Shakes Spear

    Hello I am AKPAMU,I am out here to spreed this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex lover back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month, But when i meet a friend that introduce me to DR SHAKES SPEAR the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to DR SHAKES SPEAR about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it has been done,In the next 2 days,My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact DR shakes Spear at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve.. Contact him direct on: shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com and get your problems solve like me….. ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com

  • Shakes Spear

    Hello I am AKPAMU,I am out here to spreed this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex lover back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month, But when i meet a friend that introduce me to DR SHAKES SPEAR the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to DR SHAKES SPEAR about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it has been done,In the next 2 days,My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact DR shakes Spear at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve.. Contact him direct on: shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com and get your problems solve like me….. ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com

  • Shakes Spear

    Hello I am Angella Ikpoi ,I am out here to spreed this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex love back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month, But when i meet a friend that introduce me to Prophet SHAKES SPEAR the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to Prophet DR SHAKES SPEAR about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,In the next 2 days,My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact Prophet SHAKES SPEAR at the following email address and get all your problem solve.. No problem is too big for him to solve.. Contact him direct on: shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com . and get your problems solve like me….. ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com

  • Shakes Spear

    What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don’t believe can just happen. My name is BRUCE SWIHART, from U.S.A am 25 years old i got married at the age of 24 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called Dr ogboni, he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him Dr Shakes Spear. I contacted his email address at (shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com) And i told him everything that happen all he told me is that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again. So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address:(shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com, if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems. THANKS..

  • Shakes Spear

    What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don’t believe can just happen. My name is BRUCE SWIHART, from U.S.A am 25 years old i got married at the age of 24 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called Dr ogboni, he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him Dr Shakes Spear. I contacted his email address at (shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com) And i told him everything that happen all he told me is that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again. So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address:(shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com, if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems. THANKS..

  • Shakes Spear

    What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don’t believe can just happen. My name is BRUCE SWIHART, from U.S.A am 25 years old i got married at the age of 24 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called Dr ogboni, he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him Dr Shakes Spear. I contacted his email address at (shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com) And i told him everything that happen all he told me is that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again. So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address:(shakesspear23@yahoo.com OR shakesspear23@gmail.com, if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems. THANKS..

  • Leila Stephaine

    HELLO I WANT TO SHARE A WONDERFUL TESTIMONY ABOUT DR URIBHOR, HE HAS DONE IT AGAIN, HE HAS BEEN DOING IT BEFORE AND HE HAS STILL CONTINUE WITH HIS MARVELOUS WORK, IF NOT FOR HIM, I WOULD HAVE NOT BE IN THIS WORLD AGAIN, I EMAILED HIM LAST WEEK AGO CONCERNING MY ILLNESS, HE TOLD ME THAT I SHOULD NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO WORRY ABOUT THAT I AM ON THE RIGHT PLACE, HE GAVE ME A FORM TO FILL, WHICH I DID,AND IN THE NEXT 30 MINUTES HE CALLED ME TO PROVIDE SOME ITEMS WHICH I DID, AND I NEVER THINK THAT THIS WILL WORK OUT UNTIL 24HOURS TIME HE CALLED ME TO GO FOR A HIV TEST, AND I QUICKLY RUSH TO THE HOSPITAL FOR CHECK-UP AND I FOUND THAT I WAS NEGATIVE, I CALLED I GIVE HIM THANKS, AND HE SEND ME SOME HERBAL MEDICINES AND ARVs WHICH HE SAID I SHOULD JUST TAKE FOR 3WEEKS SO THAT MY SYSTEM CAN BE CLEANSED, WHICH I DID AND ALL THE WEEKNESS OF MY SYSTEMS HAS BE RENEWED, I DON’T REALLY KNOW HOW TO HONOR HIM, BUT HAVE TO SAY WORDS ABOUT HIM, EMAIL DR AT DRURIBHORALTER@HOTMAIL.COM DRURIBHORALTER@HOTMAIL.COM

  • Mara

    Muzikjock58 Im so sorry you have gone through this. Its heartbreaking. Now it is time for you to totally take care of yourself and rebuild. Meditation (online guided by Deepak), acupuncture, counselling. Do you have family nearby that are supportive, good friends. Rely on them. You sound like a really great guy that comes from a great family.

  • Helen Tolbert

    Dr. Ariba God will continue to bless you more
    abundantly, for the good works you are doing in peoples life, I will keep on
    writng and posting testimonies about you on the Internet, I’m Helen Tolbert, I
    was a HIV patient, I saw a blog on how Dr. Ariba cured someone, I contacted him
    and also got my healing, kindly email him now on dr.aribaspelltemple@outlook.com Or draribaspelltemple@gmail.com

  • Helen Tolbert

    Dr. Ariba God will continue to bless you more
    abundantly, for the good works you are doing in peoples life, I will keep on
    writng and posting testimonies about you on the Internet, I’m Helen Tolbert, I
    was a HIV patient, I saw a blog on how Dr. Ariba cured someone, I contacted him
    and also got my healing, kindly email him now on dr.aribaspelltemple@outlook.com Or draribaspelltemple@gmail.com…………

  • Helen Tolbert

    Dr. Ariba God will continue to bless you more abundantly, for the good works you are doing in peoples life, I will keep on writing and posting testimonies about you on the Internet, I’m Helen Tolbert, I was a HIV patient, I saw a blog on how Dr. Ariba cured someone, I contacted him and also got my healing, kindly email him now on dr.aribaspelltemple@outlook.com Or draribaspelltemple@gmail.com…….

  • Helen Tolbert

    Dr. Ariba God will continue to bless you more abundantly, for the good works you are doing in peoples life, I will keep on writing and posting testimonies about you on the Internet, I’m Helen Tolbert, I was a HIV patient, I saw a blog on how Dr. Ariba cured someone, I contacted him and also got my healing, kindly email him now on dr.aribaspelltemple@outlook.com Or draribaspelltemple@gmail.com………….

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