Tiny Buddha: Wisdom Quotes, Letting Go, Letting Happiness In

Well… You can always do the Avatar Course, Become and Avatar Master and help others become more empowered and do the Integrity Course which parallels the Masters Course (for masters only). Believe me the past will begin to fade into oblivion the moment you are introduced to the Avatar Course.

i think there is a thin line between avoid and overcome something.

Try having 60-80 hour work weeks written into your divorce (to pay child support). Then we'll talk about “leaving behind the past”.

I love my kids, don't get me wrong. but you just try to stay positive working 2 shifts a day for 5 years (and another 10 to come, and no job skills to take elsewhere, and no time or money to learn new ones).

If you haven't screwed up your life, God bless you. But there is a such thing as “too late”.

@ steve.

when circumstances cant change, change your attitude.

cheers.
drew.

Sorry to say, but that's a load my friend. Steve is exactly right. There are times when it's just too late to make any positive changes and you have to live with the consequences of the past.

Frankly. Selling isn't the right word. But it does cost money. If it's done with me I get paid the fee to present guide exercises the students uses to learn to function from the Higher Self. But the fact is I don't care who one does the course with. If it's with me I am honored and love it.

Like my baby sister says “work on oneself is the bravest thing a person can do.” And work on oneself cannot be done alone, ask any wise and good person how they got wise and good and they will tell you they had help.

It certainly should be done in the presence of those who love and appreciate others and the process and have successfully worked to reduce suffering in others. The time, level of study and energy necessary to produce powerful, lasting results and set another on a path of personal empowerment should be paid appropriately. $2300.00 for ten 10 hour days is a really good deal for what Avatar offers. That is the ability to manage one's life with ease and learn to more fully appreciate others at the same time. An experiential introduction costs nothing. There are seven mini-courses which an Avatar Master would offer which cost nothing.

Hi Stephanie~

I'm so sorry to hear that you're having a hard time. I'm not sure what to say that won't sound trite–after all, only you know what you're dealing with and what might ease your loneliness.

I can say this, though: as a woman in my 30s, I know what it's like to feel uncertain about having children–and to feel the pressure of time hanging on my decision. I worry about waiting too long and then one day waking up feeling like I made a bad choice. If that does happen to me–and it might, as my boyfriend isn't sure he wants kids any time soon–I may consider adoption.

Is that an option for you? Or if it's more about filling a void in general, are there other ways to address your loneliness? Can you join some type of club or group, or put yourself out there more to meet people?

I hope this helps a little. I'm sending positive vibes your way =)

Lori

Wow…what a great Blog Lori. Thanks so much for doing it. I write a Blog called Unimio to describe how I create a life I love to live. Your wisdom and insights are great.

true wisdom….real wisdom. the stuff you can touch and feel and truly understand all comes from one place…. space. this space is always here. present and free. its not something you can grab onto, the present moment moves too fast, but if you follow the old saying go with the flow you might catch some glimpses of it. maybe rather than going with the flow a better statement is be the flow! be the flow of life and everything will fall into place. you know the greatest happiness doesn’t come from happy thoughts, or all the good times, memories and such…..but it comes from getting real. Pieces of a pie may be “good” pieces of a pie might be “bad”, but in the end its still a pie and pie’s rock! remember love and dont let it go. peace!

Steve….it is never too late. You always have to keep in sight and mind the things you want and how you want them. When you look at things as negative then the will be negative. ?I know your pain, I am a divorced and I too have to pay child support. I hit some rought times since my divorce…things that scare most people. The only option is to survive and make things better and leave the past in the past. I hope the best for you….I do understand your pain…

anyway of making this a dating site? meet ya interests?

I too chose not to have children in favor of higher education, career, and the unselfish knowledge that I could never devote the necessary, pure selflessness, sacrifice and time to raise kids. I adore children. I am fascinated by their intelligence,their innocence, their gift to someday create an amazing future, their beauty and their light. So I chose to be a pediatric therapist. I consider my career a hobby, not a job. There are opportinities for you to be with children. Perhaps you can seek out volunteer positions. I make time volunteer at several women’s shelters on my days off. This is a wonderful to give o the community too. Good Luck to you! Don’t wait! There are so many children waiting for your time!!

Steve i know you probably will never see this but coming from a kid with an uncanny similar childhood to your kids i can tell you this.
Your kids dont care about child support. If you dont pay it though your ex will make you out to be some horrible person and your kids will believe her.
Stick it out, put in the time and your kids will one day understand your sacrifice and love you so much more. Just grit your teeth for now and dont put a hit out on your ex.

havent met him……Nice guy?