@Rhaenys thanks, I finally plucked the courage to sent it last night but her phone must have been switched off so she will not receive the message until she switches it back on. After checking for last 4 hours I realised she’s fully retreated, the only other normal time she does this is if she’s doing yoga or wants do be in the moment and not rude too to others, because she’s very prompt in her replies. In this case she really does want space,  checking constantly is driving me insane i really don’t know what to do other than go around? I know @Sammy1 and @Jay2023 would probably say that’s unwise?