@Jay2023 I don’t get it bro we’re getting married soon or at least i thought so @Sammy1 if you pick this up I would appreciate your advice too. I feel livid mate one moment because it felt like a test but then I’m so sad becausel this is not her at all. She’s never sobbed like that @Rhaenys you mentioned she didn’t answer right away, no one would just take you back after being nc for that long. It takes time to reflect so when we reconciled, she was fair and kept me informed that she was thinking it over, she got back to me as she said. I know she’s not perfect. No one is but I’m at a loss. I know I said some things I shouldn’t have initially but this behaviour is out of character for sure.