Posts by Rachel Paz

Rachel Paz is a relationship-readiness coach for independent women who want relationships without giving up lives they love. Read more of her thoughts here, and check out her free guide to Never Settle Again: 7 Everyday Behaviors Setting You Up To Fail here, and learn about her course, Love, Don’t Settle here.

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What Kept Me Stuck on My Ex and How I’m Breaking the Addiction

“When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you.” ~Unknown

I might be addicted to feeling good. I’m no stranger to pleasure, and I want what I want unapologetically. But there’s a conflict that arises when one of the things I want is distracting me from having an even bigger thing I want.

My story is so common, it’s almost cliché.

Man and woman meet on Tinder. They are both vague enough about what they want that they dive in without really knowing where it will go. They develop trust, intimacy, …