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  • December 25, 2023 at 5:13 pm in reply to: Why friends disappear? #426368
    anita
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    Dear Eva:

    You are welcome and thank you! I wish you a meaningful, interesting and pleasant 2024 !!!

    anita

    December 25, 2023 at 2:12 pm in reply to: Weighed down… #426366
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    Dear Natalia:

    In regard to “I need to find out some resources here because I’ve never taken care of a sick older person before, don’t know what do expect“-

    – there is a member in the forums who takes care of her sick old father, and seems to have lots of information, resources and experience on the topic. There is no way here to send personal messages to members, but if you start your own thread (go to Forums at the top of the page, scroll down to All Forums, choose a Category, etc.), and choose a title that makes the topic clear (caring for a sick, older parent), I bet she’ll notice and reply to you there.

    I hope that you calm down best you can, and that you take care of yourself first, before attending to your mother or to your father. If attending to them distresses you too much.. don’t attend to them, at least not in ways that distress you more than you can handle.

    anita

    December 25, 2023 at 1:32 pm in reply to: Weighed down… #426365
    anita
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    Dear Natalia:

    You are always welcome to post here, Natalia!

    “My psychiatrist… never tells me and my appointments just get cancelled… her secretary books the appointments and doesn’t check“- I wish everyone did their job attentively and responsibly…!

    “My mom decided to book a trip without telling anyone and invited herself to my brother’s house… they had to drop everything to cater to my moms whims!“- she feels entitled.

    “I’m so upset , she’s probably going to do this to me next ! Just show up unannounced and expect everyone to drop their daily routine…. I don’t understand why she pretty much thinks she owns me and my brother and our homes, she even shows up at our work unannounced”-

    – you wrote six days ago in regard to your mother: “I felt really bad for her that she had to make such ‘sacrifices’ just to bring us to Canada“- I am guessing that she thinks that she owns you and your brother and that she is entitled to show up unannounced to your homes and places of work because of the sacrifices to bring you and your brother to Canada (refuge camp and all), sacrifices she may have repeatedly told you about, so that you feel you owe her..?

    “I’m also on the hook to help my dad and will need to help him move in with us as he is losing his rental place a lot sooner and has no where else he can afford to live. I need to find out some resources here because I’ve never taken care of a sick older person before, don’t know what do expect, I’m sick with worry and actually have been having many bad thoughts lately about giving up for good”-

    – My goodness, Natalia.. You are under pressure at this time on two fronts: your mother and your father. More worrisome is the latter. It happened in the last few days (after you last posted here) that your father has to leave his apartment?

    anita

    December 25, 2023 at 8:44 am in reply to: Being bullied and how to respond #426363
    anita
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    Dear DC:

    It’s 7 degrees Celsius here, winter, USA, warmer than normal. It’s Mon 8:44 am here, Tues 12:44 am where you are at. I think that I wished you Merry Christmas a few moments before midnight of Christmas Day. Good night to you, DC, a pleasure to chat with you!

    anita

    December 25, 2023 at 8:12 am in reply to: Being bullied and how to respond #426361
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    Dear DC:

    Good to read back from you, and so soon, thank you. I am staying home this Christmas. I like being home. It is very windy outside.. I just hope to keep my internet.. wouldn’t be much fun being at home with no contact with the outside world!

    anita

    December 25, 2023 at 7:05 am in reply to: Why friends disappear? #426357
    anita
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    Merry Christmas/ Happy Holidays, EvFran !!!

    anita

    December 25, 2023 at 7:04 am in reply to: Love lost #426356
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    Merry Christmas/ Happy Holidays, Ben!!!

    anita

    December 25, 2023 at 7:03 am in reply to: Too invested in others- feeling tired of that #426355
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    Merry Christmas/ Happy Holidays, Milda  !!!

    anita

    December 25, 2023 at 7:02 am in reply to: Being bullied and how to respond #426354
    anita
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    Merry Christmas/ Happy Holidays, DC !!!

    anita

    December 25, 2023 at 6:59 am in reply to: Something I realized about my anxiety attacks #426353
    anita
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    M e R R y   C h R i S t M a S,    Mr. Ritz    !!!!

    anita

    December 25, 2023 at 6:56 am in reply to: I changed jobs / feeling sad and scared #426352
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    Merry Christmas/ Happy Holidays, Caroline!

    anita

    December 25, 2023 at 6:55 am in reply to: Let a good guy go. #426351
    anita
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    M e R R y    C h R i S t M a S,   L a e l i t h i a   !!!!

    anita

    December 25, 2023 at 6:54 am in reply to: Being better at accepting depression #426350
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    M e R R y   C h R i S t M a S,     noname!

    anita

    December 25, 2023 at 6:53 am in reply to: Should we Separate?!? #426349
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    Merry Christmas, Dave!

    anita

    December 25, 2023 at 6:50 am in reply to: Struggling #426348
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    I wish you a Calm Merry Christmas, Julia  !!!

    anita

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