Well last few weeks have been very difficult we had my ex mum in law funeral was first time is seen ex family since he walked out for that day only it was like we were all a family again and I was there emotionally for my ex and for the days after

Well this week all paperwork agreed and I’ve brought our family home from him and it’s all over

27 years all given up on 4 months I was still prepared to talk and listen and try resolve our problems but ex was not

we said he still loves me but need some time in hi own to live alone have the space to himself he says it’s not about being with someone new it’s about finding himself as we’re have been together for a long time it’s the only relationship he’s known

I’m as heartbroken today as day he left for me I could see us growing old together and doing things together text I our life

But I have control now I need accept its the England I need to move on      I’m so sad and broken

Thanks Anita yes I’m going to. 1 and 2 I’m there   3 after mum in law funeral decided to have no contact unless about our son 4 I have a counsellor and she’s showing me some mindfulness tecniquics 5 need be careful due back injury but I have started Pilates and will continue after lockdown

6 is very hard I have no regrets my 27 years was mostly good and I have my wonderful son  I’m just finding hard to accept its over I love this man so much but he’s moved on so must I   feels like I’m giving up on him   but I guess he gave up on me

7 after lockdown will try

I’m determined to think positive and try and start living my best life

Not 100% my son will benefit we will see

Yes your correct the family were happy for me to be legal guardian for both mum and dad until now when an inheritance comes in its all seams to change

No I don’t believe is living together was an issue we have a son I feel that was more of an commitment than anything

Me ex and both sister’s are not married all live with partners

My son is finding life hard Lockdown hard as missing his Dad and lost his Nan     I hope he sees me as a positive role model but I’m finding life very hard I feel the way I have treated is disgusting and this family I loved and did so much for have changed so much towards me    in heartbroken

I don’t know where to start rebuilding

Money has changed this family so worried I might want a claim on mum in laws inheritance   omg really there welcome it all won’t make them happy

Anita  really hope that’s true. I’m struggling with the impact of 3 big things   breakup. Passing of mum in law and lockdown

It’s all so overwhelming and I’m finding hard to find the strength to pick myself up and look to the future

I truly feel in physical pain nothing like I’ve every felt before in my life

I’m trying so hard to be positive and be mindful and kind to myself   just last few day including today  I feel hurt and overwhelmed regarding the events of our breakup ex Mum passing and the inheritance.  It’s all too much

I really don’t deserve these events to have taken place

I really have been trying too. But I feel overwhelm ed by it all I have a feeling of being crushed by my emotions and can’t see how I’m going to move forward   but tomorrow another day

She didn’t have a will as she had dementia so her estate went equal to her 3 kids

She was so good to me and loved me as for he son my ex well what can I say I don’t understand it recognise the man he is today

In the years we were together he was never money orientated he has changed to become unrecognizable

It completely breaks my heart