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EvFran
ParticipantCorrection: yes, if you judge that I am not willing to listen….
Sorry, I have forgot the NOT.EvFran
ParticipantDear silvery blue,
I am not sure you are talking to me directly or generally…. yes, if you judge that I am willing to listen, it’s a good idea to discuss your qyestions wuth someone more valuable via email 😘
I would be interested though what people think about the questions you have raised. I find them very interesting, indeed and will think about it. It’s a pity you don’t wish to discuss it maybe in a separate thread. Take care 💗EvFran
ParticipantDear silvery blue,
Could you please be more specific about whose needs and what kind of needs exactly were not met here?
I felt that everybody could say whatever s/he wanted to any time. I haven’t read the initial threads, which caused harm, I can only reflect on what I have read in this thread, initiated by you. And I never had the feeling that I couldn’t participate. And I am very happy with the end of the conflict: two people could come to a satisfying agreement. It hasn’t been easy-breazy, as Tee says but it’s done. 💗🥂EvFran
ParticipantHi Laven,
I think you are a beautiful and very smart person. I could never express my feelings about my life with such intelligence like you! Like Thomas says: I can’t find the words to help. But I am listening.
So I join Anita:
“You are not stuck. You are surviving. You are not attention-seeking. You are voice-reclaiming. You are not too much. You are finally enough to name what was never named.”
And yes, please keep posting whenever you feel comfortable with it.
EvFran
ParticipantThanks Jany,I love resistance bands lately. It’s really easy to use them wherever you are.You can easily carry them to everywhere. 🌞
EvFran
ParticipantI really enjoy this conversation and learning from it, thanks so much for bringing it up!
EvFran
ParticipantI am really enjoying it, too! I have been always wondering how much free will we really have in life…
EvFran
ParticipantVery beautifully poem, James. Ta.
EvFran
ParticipantHi Nils, the same thing happened to me with Insta. One day I couldn’t log in. Out of the blue, my account was inaccessible without prior notice . At some point I got a message that my pictures hurt their turns and conditions. I couldn’t believe it as I only posted pictures of places, like beaches, flowers, animals. No humans, no obscene pictures, no comments. Honestly, I was using insta as a backup, to save a few pics in order to free space on my phone 🙂 Basically, it’s not a big deal but their attitude really upset me. Especially because in order to reactivate my account, they wanted a photo of me holding my password written on a piece of paper in front of me I found it ridiculous. I definitely don’t want to do that They never answered to my question: exctly which picture had hurt their T&C! It’s a known fact that there are people selling drugs, even their body on Instagram and it’s fine with them.. My beaches and flowers seemed too dangerous. A strange world.
September 5, 2025 at 10:40 pm in reply to: Who’s Here—Really? A Gentle Roll Call for Our Tiny Community #449395EvFran
ParticipantHi Anita, I am here, too, although a bit sporadic. I usually read answers to questions I am interested in. I don’t react very much because I don’t feel I have enough knowledge or competence but I learn a lot from your and others’ answers 🙂
EvFran
ParticipantDear Anita, it’s so kind that you remember of my support back then. I just expressed my sincere and profound feelings. As usual 🙂 And your message proves that I was right about you. You care about others!
I haven’t read about your sister… I will have to dig a bit deeper in tinybuddha.
My adventures are too long to talk about. Sometimes even I lose track of what happened yesterday:-)
In a nutshell: I left for india once I made sure that I couldn’t do more for my uncle and he was in the best hands possible. Unfortunately he passed away but in a very peaceful way and never had pain during his short fight with cancer. Now I think that maybe his denial helped him to cope with life. My indian trip was just sensational. I can’t wait to go back. When I got back to Europe, I had a phone call from a headhunter and got a contract immediately. Which I signed yesterday and then I had withdrawn from it, after a deeper consideration of being attached to something i don’t really want to. Money is good but it’s not all. I need to do something more meaningful, something that helps others and works for a community. So now, I am back to where i was a few weeks ago and making new plans. It’s been like this the last 4 years, so i am used to it and happy to reorganize my life. Of course, i don’t hurt anybody’s feelings and schedule with it, I am the only one concerned.
So I am happy and free to look for new perspectives and adventures.
It’s nice to see your profile pic!
Cheers, EvaEvFran
ParticipantDear Anita,
Thank you so much for your message. I am extremely sorry to reply so late! So many things have happened again unexpectedly. I really have to be flexible and adapt to situations which constantly change 180 degrees. It’s not bad, I am learning, it’s just a bit exhausting sometimes and it feels I am an alien among the people who are well settled and have their daily routine:-)
How have you been? I haven’t read the forum for some time, so I will go through the questions. I hope you are well and enjoy your days.
EvaEvFran
ParticipantDear Anita, just logged in after a few days and saw your nice surprise. Thank you so much! Actually, Christmas was very lonely. After cleaning my uncle’s flat throughly, I got so tired that I went to bed at 7 P.M. But today I feel better again, I shouldn’t think too much, just accept things as they are and get the best out of it. Which normally I do, it was just so difficult without all those loved ones who died during the last 3 years. I just imagined how nice and fun it would e if they were around. But I can’t change things, so will try to focus more on myself next year.
I hope you had a lovely time with friends and/or with family. Take care and have a nice weekend. 😘☀️EvFran
ParticipantThanks for your message, Anita. After a long reflection I have taken my decision, so I feel much better. I don’t know what the future will bring but I feel aligned and confident. Things can only get better, for sure 🙂
I hope you’ll have a wonderful Christmas surrounded by people you love.EvFran
ParticipantDear Anita,
Thank you so much for your wise words, I will keep your affirmations in mind.
I have taken my decision and it’s a good feeling. I can come back any time in case things turn worse
It’s comforting to know that I can count on your support.
Thank you.
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