Hello!

Hope you’re alright! I realised I haven’t logged onto here for a very long time again :-O I’m still having stress at work, it just feels like I’ve always got something to be worried about! It’s a different situation but still the same old stress!

Anyway, take care

Irene 74

Just came back on for the first time in a while and she still bothers me, I wish I could put it behind me! I hope everyone is ok xx

Hello Anita,

I hope you had a good weekend 🙂 well it’s the management that’s causing us most of the stress, as if things aren’t bad enough! Our City has the highest infection rate in the UK so everyone’s worried anyway!

I’m still with my partner, it’s just over 5 years now 🙂 we’re happy, the only issue is that we work together and sometimes because we’re both stressed with work it can make things difficult but we know what’s important in the long run.

About the friend I spoke about, I did hear from her back in April I think, she was asking me about our mutual friend again. The short story is that she had a dental appointment and our mutual friend now works at her dentists! She said she didn’t know she worked there and felt awkward about seeing her, I didn’t really know what she expected from me but again had no interest in me, was just venting I think.

Recently, I was with my Mum and our friend in the town and we decided to get a drink at a bar. Whilst we we’re being shown to a table I noticed she was sat at a table talking to a girl, I looked at here but she ignored me, I’m pretty sure she did see me! I don’t know why I’m bothered really.

Take care

Irene74

Hello Anita! I’m ok thank you, work is very stressful though. Maybe that’s why I came on here again! How are you? Hope you’re well. It’s a totally different world now, I hope we can get back to some normality soon.

Take care

Irene xx

Hello Anita,

Thanks for your reply! I just find some peoples behaviour strange and confusing I guess and this friend is just one example and I’ve been wondering for a while now what I’ve done wrong, when I think maybe I should just forget her! Perhaps I should have given it a different title!

Work is another thing altogether, maybe I should write about that in the work forum 🙂

Thank you

Irene74

Thank you Aiyana, that’s true, I just need to move on! I know I’ll feel better in time.

You guys are all great giving me advice, thanks very much 🙂

• This reply was modified 5 years, 3 months ago by Irene74.

Thank you Anita, you’re right, our mutual friend probably is unhappy and I know her reasons for this so I try and support her and help her as much as I can I just wish she hadn’t said the “you’ve changed” thing, it wasn’t in a positive way either! I still like to go out for a drink but I also like (and always have liked) so many other things, like the cinema and sightseeing, all sorts of things really! She doesn’t really have any other interests, I’ve tried to get her interested in things but I can’t force it!

It was hard to let go of the previous relationship, more probably because that’s all I’d known for a long time, I really had had enough of him though but that’s all good now 🙂

I think I’m just feeling worried about this because I’m feeling stressed about work at the moment and this is just adding to it

Thank you so much Salisha, I haven’t been on here for so long and had no idea I had a message! Sorry for not replying before 🙂