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Thank you so much for sharing your own personal story with me! I need to do exactly as you do and “catch” my thoughts quickly turn them into positives and not let sadness consume me. Knowing that you and I are on the same journey gives me hope that there is light at the end of the tunnel! You know, even though my heart hurts, coming here and having people like Matt and yourself, Camfleur makes me feel so loved and that there are good people in this world that care about others. I thank you so much for reaching out to me and showing me ways I can turn my situation around. I’m sorry you have struggled as well. You said you are getting better and I am happy for you! Here is a big hug from me to you! “every little thing is gonna be alright!” 🙂
You have always been there for me when I have needed help. Thank you for being so wonderful and taking time out to help me and give your wisdom. I’m very thankful for you! I will keep all the things you have said to me in mind and keep taking the steps. My mind already knows, but my heart needs to catch up! In time, like you said. I can already feel myself healing. I will be looking into the videos and exploring my outside sources. If I have more questions I’ll be sure to ask. Again, thank you so much. You are so wonderful and great and I’m so thankful each time you help me.
Thank you so much for taking time out to give me some help and advice! A couple days had passed and my guilt has almost subsided. Being human is hard, but there are so many amazing bits and pieces in between. I’m ready to find myself again on this adventure! Thank you thank you again for your kind words!
I know you don’t know me, but just three months ago after being with the love of my life for a year and a half we ended it. For the last three months I have been suicidal, depressed, major anxiety, big break downs, a few trips to the ER several therapy sessions and support groups. I still am so heart broken and depressed because I was and am still so in love with a man who really wasn’t who he was. I was just like you driving myself crazy. I have lost 25 pounds since April, and I could not leave him alone. Just last week I decided that if I want to get happy, feel better, and have a better life I have to cut ties entirely. I know you think it is so tough to imagine your life without this man, but you can live without him! YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH! You’re special just the way you are! What you are feeling after this break up isn’t wrong. It is tough to let go of someone who was apart of your every day life, but my recommendation is to lose his number and move on without him. Hope is nice, but why hold on? Sometimes people grow apart and sometimes people set people they love free because of their own personal issues. For your own health and mental state it is better to forget him and surround yourself with people who love you and don’t be so hard on yourself! The break up isn’t all your fault. You have to see both sides and forgive yourself and forgive him. It gets better. And I know it is easier said than done, but how you are feeling now is going to make you stronger later. I promise.