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jimParticipantI never herd of that 30 rule? its been a little over 30 for me! and I have the same feelings! Can’t sleep, eat, work, all I do is think about her want to call her, text her, email her! But, exactly what your going through, I don’t want go through! Her not responding! and the makes me feel desperate! There is nothing worse than a broken heart! maybe you should back off from him? if he’s see your calling and texting, emailing. He might think, she’s not going anywhere! that you will always be there! give it a try? what do you have to lose? all your contacting him is not working! Good Luck!
jimParticipantHey Dave, if it will help you feel better? you are not alone going through this. There 100s of people on this site. including me! your story sounds exactly like mine! From experience, time is the only healer unfortunately! There is no easy way out when your heart been broken! sounds like you we’re doing everything to help yourself, staying busy! Taking about it! There nothing worse then breaking up getting back together over and over and over! I been there too! wish I had a answer for you! For the suicide thoughts, you should go to the nearest Emergency room! I am sorry to to say but, I would break clean with her!!! cause then pain is just going to get worse breaking up getting together over and over! Good Luck!
January 9, 2016 at 4:42 am in reply to: My ex boyfriend cheated on me with his ex because he still had 'feelings' #91870jimParticipantSara, All of you feeling that you having are the the feelings of a BROKEN HEART! Not sure if this is your first time? Time is the only healer! I ha been through it many of times myself! and I am going through it right now! and for your so called girlfriend! she’s not your friend! friends don’t bed down with a friends mate! you should have nothing to do with her anymore! OR HIM! He will probably cheat on her. Then YOU can have the last laugh! Mean while stay busy focus on picking yourself off the ground! Good Luck!
jimParticipantHi Anita, I don’t know what I would say if I called her? maybe, just to see how she feels? maybe, to hear? Her telling me just move on it wouldn’t work? I don’t know! but hearing, move on it wouldn’t work and she’s not interested in taking it any further. could bring me to reality INSTEAD of fantasy! I don’t know? YOU! are the one that pointed out to me! That, it sounds like she wasn’t even of her husband yet! a light came on in my head when you pointed that out! BUT, I tthink was REALLY prevents me from calling her is, she was so cold when we broke up! almost like I didn’t mean much to her and it was no big deal this relationship coming to an end! I guess? it’s the rejection helps me from calling her?
jimParticipantyeah bro, it sucks! I wouldn’t wish this on anyone! I don’t know how I ever hot so attached soooo quick! I guess I should have seen the signs the she was over her ex husband. But, when your involved like that, you don’t see it! matter of fact! when I told my whole story on here, this lady pointed out to me the it seems like she was just using me to deal with the lost of her husband! But, I fell in love with her and didn’t see it coming! NOW, its just dealing and feeling with the pain! Hope things get better for ya! Try to stay busy with your time to keep her off your mind! unfortunately, there is no easy way out! Hang in there!
jimParticipantHi Jessica, I know in reality that we won’t be getting back together! I am not trying to get back together! I am trying to deal with the PAIN and get though it! there was a lady on here that pointed out to me! That apparently she is not over losing her husband of 17 years that was cheating on her. Talk about a slap in the face! she made the comment to ME! That she would never f find a soul mate like that again! AND, that she should have worked it out with him! apparently, time is the only healer! unfortunately, feels like time is standing still!
jimParticipantjust wanted to say thank you all for advice! And thank god there is this site for us to go and and advice on healing and getting through these tough times! There is a lot of people on there that is hurting! and right now I am a mess myself but, when I can try to respond to someone that is hurting and in pain it makes me feel good! I have told friends and family, I rather be beating up with with baseball bats then go through that pain of a break up!
jimParticipantThank you all for the advice! just wanted to say that this isn’t my first time I had my heart handed back to me in pieces! and I know time is the only healer! I guess what I am angry about is I was sooooo caution for that NOT HAPPEN!!!! and it did anyways!
jimParticipantThank You anita!
jimParticipantI feel the same way! it’s women and relationships. I am beginning to to believe that I will not find my soul mate? sucks!
jimParticipantThank You anita, yes that’s what I need to do repost just so I can vent! I don’t drink or do drugs. so I feel EVERY OZ OF PAIN THAT SHE HAS DELIVERED! and your right about she NOT ready for any relationship. cause she talks about her Ex Husband missing him! Lol! this what exactly I am talking about! they say Everything happens for a reason! I fall in love with this girl and she’s not even over losing her husband!just wish I never got involved! TOO late now! Now I have to deal with the my broken heart that she hande back to me in a million pieces!
jimParticipantyour boyfriend sounded just like me! I was in a relationship for ten years with this girl. I was nuts about her! But, I suffered from severe depression too! And I ended the relationship cause I thought, I needed to tend to my depression and was thinking the relationship was holding me back from getting better! Well, here I am 15 years later STILL suffering from severe depression! and wishing I had that girlfriend that I left 15 year ago cause she was such a great woman!! Depression is bad!!!!! it ruined more relationships for me! I just hope he didn’t make the same mistake I did! I think if I was was you I would support him on the depression issue. But, don’t force on trying to get back together just yet. just let him know your there for him. Then see what times beings? Good Luck!
jimParticipantThe first heart break is the hardest!!!!! I will never forget mine! I was 19 and now I am 56 lol! But, seems like it was yesterday!! But we ALL go through it! It’s not easy! But you are still young and have you whole life ahead of you! you don’t want someone who is going to cheat on you anyways! Good Luck!
jimParticipantconcentrate on your Degree and your future. He had his chance! I know it’s hard I been through it myself! Been down the road, you will be glad you did it! Good Luck!
jimParticipantI been in THAT same exact relationship before!!! it was awful!!! we loved each other! we we’re together for ten years! but it was not healthy! and it was the hardest thing I ever had to do was to get out it! I will never forget that pain!! and unfortunately, you need to get out it and move on! you have to take it ONE DAY AT A TIME!!!! Good Luck!
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