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  • October 14, 2015 at 12:14 pm in reply to: Why bother? #85405
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    The most important battle to be won is in our mind. Be at peace with yourself and the people you meet each day. personally I don’t think we need to stay in touch with current affairs unless it is really necessary. Just my view.

    October 13, 2015 at 10:44 pm in reply to: Raison d'etre #85390
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    thank you ronin for sharing your story. So much wisdom, so much pain, yet so much “clarity” as you say. may the rest of your life be filled with happiness and joy…..

    October 13, 2015 at 4:20 pm in reply to: Unsure about everything and scared #85365
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    Your writing standard suggests you would handle college/university no problem. 26 is not, I repeat, not old. You have plenty of time to turn things around.
    You may have to return to your home country for a while at some stage, in order to get some perspective. (also University costs would be cheaper there, no?)
    I’d say after the Bolivia trip reassess. As long as you have enough money to survive. Finances really do control a lot of our decisions in life.
    I’ve lived overseas for up to 15 years, and you reach a point where you can’t be totally happy anywhere. So don’t expect it. Life is often a compromise and happiness is what you make it. Learn to see the positives in any country you live, would be my advice.

    October 13, 2015 at 2:44 pm in reply to: Learning self love #85362
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    But are there enough teachers qualified to teach it?

    October 13, 2015 at 1:42 pm in reply to: Learning self love #85361
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    Self-love should be a compulsory subject at school.

    October 13, 2015 at 3:13 am in reply to: Heartsick and Torn #85343
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    Previous post was from classic dog lover 🙂

    October 13, 2015 at 1:44 am in reply to: antidepressants and obsessive thoughts #85342
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    Obsessive thoughts are very common. Lots and I means lots of people suffer from them. You need to get clarity. get distance from your thoughts and your emotions. Get distance from this heartbreaking event. You need to gradually phase this guy from your memory and replace him with more positive experiences. Don’t be in a hurry to get into another relationship. I’d get into things like yoga and meditation, even Buddhism. Study the mind, would be my advice. Think about your values, your integrity. What kind of person do you want to become? What kind of friends do you want to have? Do you value power and money? If not, seek alternative careers/lifestyles.
    Just my take on things. Good luck.

    October 12, 2015 at 11:49 pm in reply to: Heartsick and Torn #85338
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    I’d say make the dog the priority for the time being. We had a similar problem with our dog but saw a behaviourist and the dog is now almost problem free re biting anyway.
    You will feel better and more comfortable, once that issue is addressed. I’d say you need to be the boss and don’t let other people tell you how to manage your dog. you need to have that level of confidence. We use a lot of treats and positive reinforcement. I tried the tough guy thing and it never worked for me anyway. Honestly, the more time and work you put into your dog, the better its behaviour gets. Firm boundaries work well. But I guess you already know that.
    The boyfriend issue will work itself out in my opinion. If he starts harassing you about the dog, you know he’s not the right person to be with anyway. Sounds like the bite was minimal .

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    October 12, 2015 at 9:13 pm in reply to: Being a Bully to Myself: #85332
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    I know I will never do myself in because:
    1) I don’t like pain
    2) I don’t like blood
    3) I don’t like running out of breath
    4) I don’t like the ‘no gaurantees’ of life after death, might be worse than now
    5) don’t have a good life insurance policy
    6) I’d die of shame and guilt for leaving a mess for someone else to clean up
    7) Llama J. can’t see the humour in it
    8) what if reincarnation is true and I come back as a llama
    9) I like watching sport and there may be no sport in the next life
    10) No way I’d leave my partner and canine

    October 12, 2015 at 9:00 pm in reply to: Board Meeting of Inner Selves #85331
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    My self esteem is in no danger of being overly attended to

    🙂 classic!

    October 12, 2015 at 8:59 pm in reply to: OK, come clean, how many of you are there? #85330
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    I knew you’d fuss over this. Don’t read too much into it. If anyone should tire it is you Anita. Please take a well-earned break.

    October 12, 2015 at 6:42 pm in reply to: OK, come clean, how many of you are there? #85324
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    Anita
    If I suddenly disappear for a few days, don’t be concerned. I think I need a break from here as you certainly do.
    All good things come to an end sadly, but not yet.
    take care
    jack

    October 12, 2015 at 6:36 pm in reply to: I need advise. I'm lost. #85323
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    You can also try my Skype session called “discovering the llama within”.
    Discount if you have a weird sense of humour like mine.

    October 12, 2015 at 6:30 pm in reply to: Being a Bully to Myself: #85322
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    I have no wish to discuss suicide and I know it is against forum rules but sometimes I think it is useful to refer to it as prevention measure. You talked about getting rid of your internal bully too.
    Is that what most suicides are about? People can’t stand the noise of their internal critics, their self-bullies? They want to escape asap?
    I mean if we can nail these bullies through IST or any other way, we can go a long way to preventing suicides? or am I getting carried away?

    October 12, 2015 at 6:26 pm in reply to: Being a Bully to Myself: #85321
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    The internal Critic whole LIFE is about criticizing us

    I could’ve chosen a lot of other quotes too.
    Our critic or bully is obsessed with making our life difficult.
    Like big brother (haha) watching us all the time. CCTV.
    Like The Police song goes:
    every breath you take, every move you make, I’ll be watching you“

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