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I want to also add that the reason those shows were popular is because that is what most women are even if it is on a smaller scale. They demand Valentine gifts when men who clearly shop once a year and clearly do not want to be in a store buying their “payment” which is classier than money I guess for what they want. Just because they don’t have all the material things those tv charactors have doesn’t mean they don’t do the very same manipulative things. Weddings would be “old fashioned” if they didn’t promise money or Princess of the day. Everything that just contains meaning is “old fashioned.”
Why should they get their spouse’s medical insurance and then vote to have it taken away from struggling single people?? “Who do they think they are?” Obviously someone told them how amazing they were and the whole world should just step aside especially women who they view as lesser.
The only voice I have had since I was a teenager was Madonna.
Absolutely not. Many things have changed for the good but one thing that has not turned out well is manipulative bullies have unprecedented freedom to walk all over others with no pressure of accountability.
If you connive to cheat a fair system you are a hero today and if you fight to win through an unfair system you are hated.
I have never wanted anything more in my life than to be accepted without playing a role. The only material thing I have ever really wanted was my own home. Just my own space where I do not have to answer to anyone and especially where NO ONE can tell me I am not wanted. I have never had my own home.
I was never appreciated for my mind and it angers me that shallow stupid women receive awards for being manipulative, shallow and stupid and I struggle just to survive.
They have the NERVE to criticise people that struggle that just want a decent living for WORKING when they spend their time manipulating someone to buy them gifts give them what they want like they are the boss. They elect misogynists from both sides. They only get what they want by sleeping with someone and when he wants to move on he just recycles her anyway.
It’s all a bunch nonsense and as a thinking person as their are very few of us left especially in this country, I feel as I have no voice.
I do have and have had a voice though except it has not been mine.
You can stand women who speak their minds and you put them in all kinds of positions where they have to fight to survive but you will never be able to say you made it on your own. No matter how much people put you on a pedestal…deep down inside you know that.
You may be able to hurt a lot of other women while you stand in your position but some women will defy you and they are the women you hate the most. You can’t destroy them and that gets on your nerves. Those women remind you that you can’t make it on your own. You need a man to prop you up.
No women I have met or am likely to meet. Most likely that woman would be heavily criticized. There are a few strong women who accept this burden but not many and certainly not enough. Most women are content to keep the patriarchal cycle going because it benefits them to do so.
These are the only women I can look to for support but they are very difficult to find or communicate with.
Dear Anita
Are you under the impression that I wouldn’t be nurturing in a relationship? Just a question.
Oh yes I still daydream, quite often. I feel it is the only place where I can experience these things and I am a part of the world.
In the mindset I am in right now I am not waiting for him because I know he will never come. When I am feeling better is when I hope there is a chance.
Lisa
I have been living the life that is barely available to me Anita and frankly I am tired of fighting to at least have my empty life as opposed to nothing at all. I have to fight to deserve to be called mediocre.
Why is a basic good life not available to me? I am just as good as others. I don’t want to be catered to. I want to be thought of as just as good. It just annoys me when some who clearly don’t deserve it are catered to. I don’t demand I be catered to.
My life is not worth anything to anyone and I am supposed to be ok with that when sell outs and conceited bubbleheads are told how wonderful they are?
I appreciate you but I can not accept my life. That’s claiming defeat and I am not accepting defeat. I am not going to make things easy for the ones who look down on me.
I am really bad right now and I have to pretend I’m fine everywhere I go. I can’t find a peaceful place either. I wanted to get out of my room away from women catering to their boyfriends. I am truly amazed how reasonable people can be unreasonable when it comes to their relationships with other people. It’s like they become different people and I was never willing to be blind on behalf of having a relationship.
I am in a second place that is full of mindless chatter and noise from construction. I can not find peace anywhere. There is no where to go. I am tired of this. I have to suffer for what I fight for I guess. I am just tired of suffering.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine.