Dear Anita :

Sorry for late reply. I had a very tiring day at work so i had crashed as soon as i got home.

Ok. So i will not reach out to her. I have been given a project for next 6 months and if i see it through efficiently, My VP said he will give me next level by Jan – Feb 2020. So now my whole time/dedication/energy will be devoted to this project. 🙂

Dear Anita :

Yup.. 🙂

Dear Anita :

So today i meet with my VP. Wish me luck that i keep all this drama behind and move up the ladder 🙂

Dear Anita :

Yup..im realising now that i myself made it more difficult for me by not realising or seeing what was right in front of me..

But yeah i have made a firm decision to move on and let it all go. I know it wont be easy and will require lot of work on my part.

As of now im gonna completely focus on my work. I have my meeting with my VP tomorrow so im gonna talk to him about next level for me in corporate ladder and to take on more responsibilites.

Im also gonna take help of my friend. Called up my childhood friend today and told her n she agreed to help me move on.

But somewhere deep inside my heart i will always wish, things were bit different.

Dear Anita :

Yup..i guess somewhere im still holding on to the thought that maybe “Just friendship” is possible with her. And to be honest she did used to do this hot and cold thing. Like when im not paying attention she will do something to get it. I guess you are right. She is scared of going down that path again with me.

Anyways this whole situation has been too emotionally exhausting for me. I just want a break from all this

Also her husband’s account is not blocked on none of my accounts. My original acs were blocked on his acc too..

So im not sure is she trying to get my attention back? Or she doesnt want me to move on? Or her husband is doing all this? Or is she doing to just mess with my head?

Her blocking me till date shows that she is still affected by me or else why will she keep blocking me? Its been 4 weeks since my last contact with her.

Dear Anita :

Wow..I live in India. How strange and nice that some real life situations can connect people so far away. 🙂

Yup. Im a strong advisor of keeping things and life simple. Thats why i like keeping straight forward conversations. Although sometimes my straight forwardness offend people a lot.

And not to be an asshole right now, but im do sending good wishes and prayers to my friend. As i know its her final month and i can understand it can be really hard. So im praying for her safe delivery and for mom and baby to healthy after delivery. I wouldnt wish other wise on any woman, friend or not 🙂

Hope you have a good holiday weekend

Dear Anita :

True. I guess I never thought things will be like this. Although i did try to talk about issues but whenever i tried she ignored and then we would have another fight.

if i had known things would be like this, i would have made things very clear very early.

But as they say its never late to learn 🙂