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  • #164644
    Naturelover
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    Lucy,

    you have the right to be upset. You’ve mentioned to him before that you don’t feel comfortable about heather (and rightly so!!)

    He Hasn’t respected you enough to take that into account and was texting her with things that would obviously be upsetting to you. That’s not okay. Your feelings should come first to him regardless of anything.

     

     

    #163290
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    Hi Mina,

    You said that you would not get back with that person again so the bottom line is, you have to move on. If there is no way that you would have a relationship with that person then there is no need to feel guilty. You are doing the right thing for yourself by honouring your decision.

    The way you are feeling is perfectly normal. Obviously you spent a lot of meaningful time with this person so you are entitled to remember the good time whilst undertaking your own selful journey of moving on. I think many many people would feel a similar way.

    #163288
    Naturelover
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    Andrew,

    In all honesty from what you’ve said above, I think you have made a lot of effort to attempt to repair things and done the right thing.

    From an outsiders perspective I think you are getting a bit of a bad deal here.

    Perhaps the best thing to do is give her some space. her responses to your efforts to fix the situation don’t seem to be fair on you.

    #163286
    Naturelover
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    Hi Dustin,

    I feel that love and relationships aren’t about what the other person has to offer. It’s deeper then that, somebody can simply like your company and that is all it takes to have a great partner in life. So don’t feel like you have nothing to offer, if your kindhearted and courteous to others then just being you is enough!

    Also, think about all the bad things you don’t have! For example, drug addiction, huge debt etc. you may be in a good position by not what you “have” but what you don’t have.

    if your feeling bored there are a few things I can suggest. Firstly, think about what you want in a partner and let that inspire you. It doesn’t mattter if it’s a younger women or an older women.

    Laugh at things and have a good sense of humour

    and if your still bored I highly suggest you try surfing.

    you can try it in so many places these days. Any ocean, the Great Lakes have waves, there are even specific surf wave pools in places like Texas now.

    #162060
    Naturelover
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    You need to hear this.

    I don’t even know you but I can tell You are worth so much more then the garbage that person put you through.

    That person is the one with the problem you have done nothing at all wrong and deserve so much better .

    Just the fact you put your heart into it and tried makes you so far above the treatmeant you received. There is no point trying to understand that person because they are totally wrong. What they did was horrible.

    It is absolutely stupid to let this emotionally harm you! the rest of the world may think you are wonderful and there are honestly so many guys out there who will love you and treat you loyally. On top of this there are so many wonderful handsome guys with great qualities too that will make you happy.

    Don’t let the magic of who you are be ruined, Because it’s not just affecting you.

    When you are investing your time in this garbage the rest of the world is missing out on the awesomeness of the real you.

    I’m probably from a totally different walk of life to you and I just hate to see how such a problem you don’t deserve is affecting you. And I hope this person doesn’t alter your view on life because it’s not how real life is, you’ve just experienced something bad.

    And the fact I know your awesome is because it takes a Special person to put thier heart into something and be honest like that.

     

    #162068
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    Hi Vic,

    Looks like you “dodged a bullet” with that guy. Sounds like someone not worth being in your life.

    So firstly, anyone who judges someone on something very minor probably isn’t a very intelligent person and regardless of thier preference in grooming clearly lacks basic tolerance for differences. people who act like that probably aren’t the right people to have a relationship with and I doubt even understand what It is to love someone or be someone’s partner.

    Now secondly, I’m a guy and I’m not bad looking. So maybe you would like my opinion as from your perspective I might be one of the people you are concerned about potentially judging you.

    I am totally fine with girls being natural and having body hair. I think it looks attractive and a girl can be beautiful with it. I would go as far as to say I like it or prefer it (though I have nothing against girls who shave/wax either) all I’m saying is there are many guys out there (probably more awesome then you think) that would like you for who you are. So don’t go changing because of a negative experience someone put you through. Also I just asked my friend what he thinks, he agreed, body hair is fine and he prefers it to girls going crazy with the razor.

     

     

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