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    You can file an anonymous complaint to child protective services or call the police they will take care of it.

    in reply to: Not sure who my ex is #54500
    Princess
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    There is no need to apologize. We come here to give and receive advice. Yes you are right. I sometimes feel sorry for him because his relationships before me all lasted an average of 3 months. He always described them as psychos etc. he had nothing good to say about them and he was always the victim.

    I truly pray that one day I will feel whole enough to be in a healthy relationship but for right now I am not ready.

    in reply to: Not sure who my ex is #54469
    Princess
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    Thanks Jamie
    It’s an up and down thing. Luckily my ex lives in a different state and I blocked him on FB so I really don’t know what’s going on with him. I just get annoyed when I think about the games he is playing. I just didn’t expect that from him. We were best friends and up till the breakup we were doing ok. He wouldn’t have told me about the other lady if I didn’t find out. I know it will get better because I remember when I took the bold step to end it. I couldn’t eat nor sleep. I lost 15 lbs. I was getting panic and anxiety attacks if I saw anything that reminded me of him. Even FB! Now I’m on FB and I don’t even go to his page. This just gives me hope that it can only get better from this point. I hope the universe can send me someone who is right for me. 🙂

    in reply to: Not sure who my ex is #54438
    Princess
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    Chad you are absolutely correct.
    What I mean by dating myself is precisely what you said. Maybe I should have been clearer. After this relationship I had to go back and examine all my past relationships and ask why they failed. I read an article right here when the breakup first happened that advices me to look within. What part did I do to make it fail. One is because I didn’t think better of myself like I didn’t deserve a better relationship for several reasons I’d rather not mention. Once I was able to discover and come up with reasons I started working with a counselor (I still am). Until I fix those things I will continue to get the same results no matter whom I’m with. You are right about what you said about my ex and I. I failed or didn’t want to see who he showed me he is. We were in a long distance relationship.
    This relationship is the wake up call that I needed to examine ME. I was pointing out my ex because of his words. I know that I won’t entertain or even attempt a relationship with someone who tells me he can’t give me what I want. Or isn’t ready for a relationship when I become emotionally ready. My ex did love me the way he knew how. I still love him. I maybe a little annoyed. But I won’t continue dating because he is when I know I have a lot of work to do on me. I can’t control him but I can control me. I hope I’m clearer now and thanks.

    in reply to: Boyfriend Doesn't Want a Future With Me #54427
    Princess
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    I went through the same thing with my ex. He did tell me he was in love with me, but always said he didn’t know if he could give me what I wanted which was a future with him.i would leave him and he would always come back to me after a year had gone by. But then we would repeat the same dance again. Well five years later it’s over again. Hopefully for good because this time he was seeing another woman and I guess he chose her over me. This time when I left I felt completely satisfied that I put in my very best but it just wasn’t meant to be. It’s been 4 months now. I am doing so much better. He wanted to remain friends but I refused because “friends” don’t do such to “friends” How could he be telling me he loved me, sleep in the same bed with me while messing around with someone else? Also the bigger issue was that I couldn’t trust him. I dont want to go into too much detail but he lied to my face about something else after the breakup and I couldn’t believe he could be that blatant. He didn’t know I knew he was lying. So cheating + lying = betrayal. I don’t want to be friends with someone like that.
    So what I learnt from my five year relationship with him is if a guy does not see a future with you in most cases hanging around is not going to change his mind. Be true to yourself and give all your love and you to someone who not only wants it but also deserves it.

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