Dear Anita,

How are you doing ?

Ever since we were having misunderstanding between me and my estrange wife plus my mother in-laws , and on top of that they were also refusing to give me my son neither to go and visit him with them.  They *could * tell me,  we don’t want you to see you stepping into into our fenced.  While they have my son. Whenever I try to insist and get in by myself without their permission,  they  immediately grabbed my son when he is playing inside the fence and go inside the house ,to hide my son from me.

I tried my best to respect them and give them a time for about 7 months without going to see my boy nor call them over the phone.

I t came into my mind that if I leave my son for them to raise him up they will soon brain wash him and later on , be will have issue with me.

My mother in-laws was the one rejecting me to see my son and she is letting her daughter go out to go look for the money in the hotels with those men who have money.  Later on she come and give her mother money.  On top of that , they brag a lots , my mother in-laws has her mother in Canada and she is the one sending them money .

My father in-laws is the richest man and he has declared that I don’t want this woman who I had married some years ago and now when her daughter is being married by the young Pilot , they decided to spoil everything.  Now he has spent 3 years without stepping into the house where they are!

He has also refused to support them.

He was the very best friend of mine who decided to give me my son.

Where I live here has no any relatives and my mother passed away 6 years ago when I was finishing my High school in Uganda.

So no body I can give to my son and take cares of him while I go for work. So that was the reason I took him to Kenya.

Once again if I let my son stay with me , her mother will steal him when I am at work.

Thank you for the nice question Anita..

Greg

I mean my mother in-laws with her daughter (my estrange wife), ,, they just give juice only.  Until my son becomes addicted with juice.

What could be the good  diet for a such baby ?

Dear Anita,

Thank so much , God is in control and he had seen my struggles for so long.  Besides my ears are deaf now from those people who back bite me , concerning my wife.  She is also abusing me somewhere from other people.  She is absolutely talking negatively on me , that I am the one who was the cause of our misunderstanding of our marriage.

How did I went wrong here Anita , based on how you had seen the scenario of the story.

Ati,  they where walking together with her mother and they found one of my mine friend from his work place and he is a Ugandan ??  , telling my friend,  her father and they  whole relatives hated them and they are being chuck to be visited cause of me.  A friend of mine (Ntge)  call me this evening and told me their conversation. However , she is saying if I want her back then I should  return her son Chris Agoth Gregory , from Nairobi – Kenya and give her and we sit down and sort out the case.

My answer was/is I will not be fooled to be bring my son back to such people whose their heart is hard and closed.

Anita,  your help is needed Again on this Agenda.

Gregory

The good news is , I have got scholarship with our government of south  Sudan,  Civil Aviation, ,,,, I am leaving in a month of July for  my CPL (Commercial Pilot License)  to go n complete it.

Dear Jay Jay!

Thanks for your amazing advice Sir! !! This woman my first choice in my life  and posterior to that we both felt in love completely.

Disappointment came in after  we had married . Also we had the economic in our country South Sudan – Juba,  its making all you ladies to ran away from their own respective husbands, ,, , and to hotels with those who are having money . Thanks my dear.  My mind is almost resettling now and focus for my beloved son Chris Agoth Gregory.

My worries is one thing,  if he becomes like her mother the time he becomes a man, ,,, and decides to leave my shoes….. And follow her mother ‘s shoes.